Oh no... that’s terrible. No kidding, fucking cowards! No one is graceful giving or receiving rejection...but I’d welcome it over suddenly being pretended out of existence.

Oh gosh, thank you so much! 

I totally relate! We’re about to have a big dump of snow tomorrow, and I’m seeing it as an out of a bunch of odds and ends because I doubt it will be smart to drive...but why can’t I just NOT do the stuff that doesn’t have to be done and be fine with it, whether there’s a foot of snow or not?!

Thanks! I’m trying. It’s kinda crazy that yes, my Grandmother’s death has been really sad and hard, but most of my brainspace is being taken up with “REALLY?! Fucking seriously?” 

Bobbb! You’re the best, Bob!

Oh, I hope you get it! Waiting for news like that is so hard, but I’m glad that you’re making good use of the time, and I hope you’re relaxing some, too.

Thank you! Big hugs are exactly what I need right now.

Phew! 2018 had a rough finish. Got dumped (well, “Ghosted” technically) out of a 7-monther two weeks before Christmas, then my Grandma died the week before Christmas. Not exactly a cheerful holiday season. Here’s to all of us having a good 2019?

I appreciate this from the standpoint that my ex, who I have often said would not be able to pass the Turing test, is named Henry.

A girl can dream.

To ARNAR: Blow that shit up!

This clarifies something that happened to me the other day! I received a call from my zip code but a number I didn’t recognize. They insisted they had received a call from me—I had never called them. Later I received texts from a different number asking if I was a “women” (which I imagine they’d already determined…

I went to public school in New Mexico, which consistently brings up the rear in US education rankings. Here I am now, not only literate and able to calculate tip mentally but also pursuing my master’s degree in ecology. I also hung out with a glorious cross section of races and cultures, and people of different…

Nota Trump fan by ANY means and am appalled by the Muslim ban, but this smells a tiny bit like birtherism?

I voted, but clearly that wasn’t enough. I’m not that interested in working for a campaign. What are the rad organizations that I can throw my angst, sadness and fear at through the next four years that promote democracy and tolerance in hopes that no travesty like this ever happens again?!

As that Girlfriend, you’re the worst, and I call your bullshit. The world IS a disturbing place, it IS upsetting, and there is plenty to find disquieting even on a good day...Your girlfriend is probably paying more attention than you.

This is technically not pee nor poop nor vomit, BUT. One time after a light rain I decided to ride my bike to the gym. There was a classic car show (full of old men, a busy Saturday in the area) in the park adjacent, so I decided to walk through on the way. I got back on my bike to scoot to the gym, noticed butt felt…

“That would not be my first choice”?!

College Housemate would consistently take enormous dumps before going to bed. Okay, fine. But she never stuck around long enough to see them fully ushered out of the toilet. I’m an early riser, so would get up to pee and find a 8 hour old turd lurking in the toilet that I would have to plunge before doing anything…

Every one of those rooms looks like it would give me a headache after a while.