Ahhhh the days of cuddling. That was the first year we cohabitated. It was nice but I am really most comfortable sleeping on my stomach with my arms and legs spread out like a swastika. No place for man. Sorry, man. :(

I wish I could star this over and over, in all the rooms of the house!

"What mostly determines which version of us you will encounter during any given conversation is one crucial variable: you."

The chemicals in addictive drugs mostly stimulate the producers or receptors of the neurochemicals associated with euphoria. Orgasms also stimulate the same endorphins. I think most people don't get addicted to sex because it's such a short "high" and the effort:high ratio is kinda meh. But if you do, there's no way…

Yeah, that's the problem with buffets. Capsman and I went to Old Country Buffet for nostalgia's sake since we both had memories of eating there as kids. When we found out the price we were like, oh hell, we are eating EVERYTHING here!! RESTOCK THE MAC AND CHEESE BITCHES. We regretted that meal for like two whole days.

Man, why was looking like a wolfman so IN???

Yeah, I feel her. Mancaps and I had been considering adopting a puppy (aka I was talking him into it hardcore) for a few months when my childhood dog died unexpectedly. So much devastation. His reaction was to get the puppy ASAP. ASAP was actually 2 months later, way more time than what Miley's dealing with, and I…

I feel you. Guys would tell me that I was difficult to approach because my being shy/anxious came off as "intimidating". But I think it just goes back to the self love/acceptance thing. The more confident I get, the more I am apparently sending friendly vibes.

Yeah! And what about her whole being an amazing musician thing??? I guess it's good all she really wanted was marriage and children because apparently she NEVER PLAYED MUSIC AGAIN.

That grossed me out. They spent their entire childhood thinking of her as their aunt and now they want her to be their stepmom? It's so vaguely incesty, like dating your adopted cousin.

Do you ever get sort of forced into talking to women you don't know well and it's just like... We are all just boring the shit out of each other because we don't know what else to say? I'll ask about their kids because that's usually the most natural way to end an awkward silence, and they'll talk about their kids…

Thank you for pointing that out. Both sides of this dumb argument are not listening and that's pretty much all we should be doing.

That's my point, though. No one is perfect, and I actually do have a lot of respect for the writers. They have a tough job. But I have seen several established, smart commenters punished (star taken away, no longer followed by Jez, whatever the scene is) for criticizing different writers at different points in time. I…

I think this is the essence of what I'm trying to get at:

Thank you! Exactly.

I find it interesting that you have read so much emotion into my discussions with others... :|
Do you have his number or email? Because I'd be glad to talk to him about why his views are misguided. But otherwise I'd be preaching to the choir about that, dude. That's not interesting or stimulating to me.

I think Feminist writers have more responsibility to be aware of the intersectionality of different kinds of oppression. It's not really fair to write pieces about our society's need to tackle male privilege if you can't be bothered to assess your own privileges. I get that Jez writers do try, but they get it wrong a…

I guess I just disagree that there can only be one punch line to a joke. Colbert typically does some excellent multi-layered jokes about politics and culture. This is not one of them. Arguably one of the layers to it is just good ole "LOL CHING CHONG". Maybe you didn't get that and I might not have either, had I seen…

If you actually read some of the tweets, you'll find that isn't true of all or even most of the angry tweeters. The Gloss posted the best ones in their oped.

My problem is in telling people, in this case people of Asian decent, that they should not feel offended by a joke. Just because it is comfortable to the majority (even when we are the peeps who try to be aware if this shit) doesn't make it a good joke. We really need to listen with open hearts to people who have to…