I don't know that I'd call it insecurity so much as self awareness.

Yeah, but she doesn't have the type of hair that people disparage. People love her hair. People covet her hair. Many women have stopped chemically straightening their hair because they see her hair and hope that they will have something like it one day.

Any event you want, really. I did this for birthdays and various other random parties before ever considering getting married. I saw no reason to wait until some guy asked me to marry him to celebrate me, my life and my accomplishments.

Or perhaps it would be better for that woman to spend her time working on her emotional health and developing the ability to tell all those people to step the hell back when they are putting stress on her for something that is none of their business? If you want to plan your wedding long before it happens just…

Wait, do you run the cable after the event has started or before? I mean, I imagine one could run the cable then change before the event started if there was a need to stick around?

Uh, yeah they do. You know why? Because it's their party.

So you'd wear jeans to work, change into your black tie appropriate clothes for the event and then change back to your jeans when you're done. I'm assuming that's what you're saying because otherwise you're not making a whole lot of sense.

But seriously, did they actually talk about it? Or did they agree that they both wanted to be parents and would both raise the child? Because those are two very different things.

Puh-lease. It's the pot calling the kettle black. Hypocrisy.

Nah, not really. She could have easily said "Hey, I applaud her self-confidence" and left it that when they asked her about it. If she didn't want to throw shade then she wouldn't have thrown it.