In my experience, no matter what someone looks like, if I find them socially attractive, they are just as hot as any other conventionally hot person. Looks are trumped by social attractiveness every time. Even though I'm a virgin, sex for me is and will not be about the physical aspect as much about the emotional…

Pulp Fiction, The Matrix, Back To The Future, Boogie Nights and The Big Lebowski.

You sound like the female version of me (except I'm 22). It's such a paradox, how do introverts ever meet each other?

I hear ya! I'm in my early 20's and I feel I'm the only person this age who has any sense of punctuality/courtesy in regards to time. If I say I'm going to be somewhere at some time, I am there at that time, and in the rare instance when I'm going to be late I give them a heads up and a sincere apology in person…

Does anyone know of a sort of ingredients -> recipe "calculator"? Something that will allow me to choose ingredients and then give me things I could make with those ingredients. I'm trying to make my use of food as efficient as possible. I'm pretty good already, but sometimes things perish because I don't know what…

I've also definitely fallen (and had the whole want them to want me thing) for people who, in retrospect, are super lame. For me, it was quitting Facebook that did the trick because that allowed me to completely distance myself from them. If you are FB friends I'd at least un-friend them. Even though it kinda makes…

Ben Affleck makes up for his acting with his directing and writing. Good Will Hunting, Gone Baby Gone, and The Town are all quite good. I am definitely excited to go see Argo.

"I have never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude."

Clarification: I find them genuinely unenjoyable to look at.

First, I haven't changed anything on my body. Except I do cut my hair and nails and I have recently had to get glasses.

lol, this observation is completely useless. Since when have people not talked shit behing other peoples backs? Get your panties out of a bunch.

Abuse? Definitely not. According to the article, this 11 year old wanted a tattoo, she most likely knew beforehand that it would hurt, and she decided to go through with it anyway. Moreover, she got an entire tattoo, meaning she never requested for it to stop. Even though this 11 year old is not capable of making a…

I completely agree that the mom made a shitty decision, but I'm not sure that anyone besides her should be able to do anything about it. As a fellow commenter in another discussion thread noted, parents scare their children in much worse and perfectly legal ways every day. I just have a hard time seeing this as a…

Who else just doesn't "get" tattoos? I can't be the only one. No matter how small and inconspicuous one is, I just think they're obnoxious. I don't understand any aesthetic or social reason for getting them. I've got quite a few things in this world that I love dearly and that represent me well and blah blah…

OMFG Borderlands 2! I am a poor ass college student and can't afford it, but to celebrate it coming out I started my 4th play-through of Borderlands 1. Do you like number 2? It looks sweet.

I agree with Claudia, A Tale of Two Sisters is very scary. In general, asia really has horror down. The Japanese movies Ringu (The Ring is the American version) and Audition are scary too. Audition is one of the most twisted movies I have ever seen. In general, anything by Takashi Miike (the director of Audition)…

If he's joking around, then he's one of those really serious/bordering-on-manipulative jokers that nobody likes. If not, it's definitely not a good way to accomplish anything and is slightly on creepy.

Since you aren't looking for anything you could try just being truthful. I mean, if you still can't get his attention, just text him and be like "yo, I think you're totally hot and I wanna be part of some casual bone-town with you." If all else fails, try this, you have nothing to lose.

So I am trying to decide whether or not to try to date. I have tried before, but not really for any purpose other than that's what you do as a 22 year old right? I mean, all my peers are doing it, so shouldn't I be?

You could ask him out; this stage of ambiguity that you are in will be over really fast that way. Even if the he says no, your relationship as it is will most likely stay in tact (though it might be awkward for a few days).