Good on you Mattie! Sometimes, the professionalism displayed in the courts by these girls hides the true feelings they have. Dropping that F bomb on national TV in front of this piece of shit is exactly what should have been said. God willing he pulls an aaron hernandez quickly so we don’t have to pay for his meals.

I nearly lost my kids because I truthfully admitted in court that my ex had raped me.

This is so fucking pathetic. I hope, for your sake, that you have the good sense to be embarrassed about how you’re coming across here and change your behavior, but something tells me that actually examining yourself causes too much damage to your ego for your fragile psyche to handle.

Where do I say “she doesn’t have enough experience to have a point of view?” As for assuming that “happily married friends don’t have to worry about consent,” I fixed that in my reply so I’m not sure why you’re hitting me over the head with that again.

“Looking back, I see that I was ignoring Grace’s signals that should have been obvious to anyone. I’m realizing how much this has to do with how I, and most men, are socialized, and we need to examine that as a society. If calling me out will help start that conversation, I’m okay with it. I plan to spend time…

Im not saying she was assaulted (im not even sure she herself has said that), but this is more than just “bad sex.”

that’s like thinking your partner is seriously into BDSM even though they repeatedly used a safe word and generally were clearly uncomfortable and then being like, oh whoops, i couldnt tell - sorry!

Flanagan has been married for what, 25, 30, 35 years? Every reference to her own marriage is as a happy one. Assuming she’s telling us the truth about her own marriage, when was the last time Flanagan had to really make a decision about consent? Her writing is super old fashioned. I’m guessing her real experience in…

he literally didn’t apologize at all but okay

That’s because you’re 1) a man and 2) a fucking moron

Do you know who does stuff like this? Who ignores communication from their partner, going ahead with whatever they want to do sexually, while always making sure to stay on the legal side of things? PREDATORS. It is not the men who care deeply about making sure their partners want to be there and are comfortable but…

I think that reinforces the point though — the conversation here should be a lot more nuanced and handled more deftly. I’m in my 30s now and I know how to say no, but pretty much throughout my 20s as I explored my sexuality I consistently ran into situations that I didn’t know how to handle. There’s a lot of pressure…

See, this is the fucking problem with neckbeards and assholes. They will take any small minutiae and use it to call into question everything about the victim,

Jezebel, What Are You Doing? Days of silence on the topic, and then what comes forth is not actually the thinkpiece on sexual coercion and the “ways consent can feel blurring”, on how predators purposefully use bullshit excuses about “miscommunication” to get away with it, about how Ansari is more representative of…

This is not even remotely true. It’s how you want to see it, that way you can dismiss it all as some ridiculous revenge plot. Women have the upper hand and they’re going to make men pay! Sounds like the tagline of a 1950s B-movie, or even 70s. And you keep using Jezebel as the be all end all of proof of your revenge…

This piece is unreal. I’ve been looking for Jez’s take on this for over 24 hours. They haven’t covered it at all except to say that Babe did it badly. Way to have those tough conversations, Jez

Would it have been better if they just published rumors that just happened to be true? They published a women’s account of being pressured into a sexual interaction she wasn’t comfortable with, and one in which the man repeatedly ignored her cues that she was uncomfortable. That’s newsworthy.

Yeah, when people blatantly lie it annoys me. Rape apologists annoy me.

Ah, so you’re admitting to yet another lie. You’re probably too stupid to even see the fucking irony. Later.

You believe all of these women without having seen any real evidence.