Radical feminists don’t do that shit. You’ve created a narrative of what radical feminism is. I’m certainly not gonna be able to step you off of it, so just have that ignorant shit. You are truly paranoid, though.

Would you please have less hot takes on feminism

Then the answer is to change institutions/the system, from the top to the bottom. Unfortunately, the system is riddled with men in power. We need an actual WOMEN’S MOVEMENT in solidarity. We need to get liberal feminists to believe and know in their hearts that male domination is systemic and ingrained, so we can move…

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No fuckin way. When she said she wanted a women only event, she meant it. Why is she supposed to go back on this just because this man has a hard-on for calling out women for “excluding” men by wanting to be with only women? He’s not feeling excluded, this is his thing. What a waste of time this lawsuit is. NEVER give…

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Absolutely. Jezebel, you are part of the problem.

“I’m saying you can spend the rest of your life blaming men or you can accept that some, maybe even most, men are shitty, and deal with that reality”

No what I’m saying is put the blame where it belongs. This is shitty and strictly male behavior. She never should’ve been put in the position she was put in. All the focusing on the woman’s decision, yet pass by the discussion of his decision to do the “fucked up & disrespectful” thing in the first place. How often…

NO

Can you describe your feelings of femininity?

Communicate outside of sex, so that you know the woman. You should learn her body language, you should insert some nuance into your rigid thinking of women. You shouldn’t need to be “told” where the line is if you’re a decent person who values the woman you are involved with truly, as a person. It will happen.…

“Yeah, it is that hard. Nobody is a fucking mindreader. How does person A know person B feels coerced if person A is not attempting to be coercive, and person B does not communicate that they feel coerced?”

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I agree.

Why’d you say this, then?

“And how do you suggest, short of telepathy, someone knows how someone else feels about something until that something is suggested?” Ask, communicate. In a way that doesn’t proposition someone aka manipulate. Active listening. There are resources for improving social skills, google it.

“Because all men are dirt simple creatures that let their dicks do the talking for them all the time, right? You think men enjoy the pregnancy scares that come after condomless sex? You really think men aren’t on the hook too if the woman they’re with becomes pregnant? Like they can just fucking skip town without…

To the question of who wanted the condom more I said: “she was caught off guard by the question. Which suggests disappointment that he wanted to ditch the condom while getting into it. Which suggests she wanted to use the condom more than him.”

“I just did not make the assumption that in the initial conversation about whether or not to use a condom, both in the article and the further discussion, that the man would have been pushing for no condom and the woman insisting on it. In my experience (most of the time), both parties initially want the condom.”