What matters, too, is how she felt about it. She was taken off guard, wanted to please, chose to please. And he was completely disrespecting her by asking that in the first place. She had already said no to no condom. No pressuring allowed.

And this is why stripping is not empowering, unfortunately. You put all your marbles into your body, you’ll probably be upset by how men treat it. Men don’t value strippers as people like they should, they only value their own dick & ego. Stripping is like a financial trap...promising lots of money, but not without…

You don’t believe power imbalances exist. You believe women and men are equal despite worldwide, across male violence against women, across most all cultures, male on female exploitation, control, intimidation, rape, and assault with little consequence. You are living blissfully if you aren’t reading news about women.…

I’m curious how you perceive your posts as coming off then. You’re just so angry at women who have thoughts & feelings on things that overwhelmingly happen only to women. That’s women’s right to speak on, not yours. It’s your turn to listen. But I know, I know... I’m dumb and undignified to broadcast my incompetence…

I’m not stupid or incompetent.

You are not a fucking feminist, dude. One example of why, is because you defended the dude who asked to take a condom off in the heat of the moment after agreeing to use one.

You just have to know how it makes you look to others.

*A CONDOM, not no condom

“She didn’t say no and then have him pressure her into it, he asked and she said yes.”

Your inability to understand & validate other people’s experiences and feelings (empathy) is something I’d rather not see anymore.

I’d be glad to talk about feminism with you, but you only insult.

Stalking my posts! If I’m a clown, you’re a huge fucking loser who stalks posts just to insult people.

You deem it “dignified” to know how to post a picture in jezebel? You got the gif either way. I’ll admit I’m a bit illiterate in these comments sections, but that doesn’t mean I’m dumb.

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lol, ok that made no sense. But definitely, I’m done here.

I’m no Lena Dunham fan, but can you define “white feminism” in detail please?

She already said no, is the problem. And it was a no to sex without the condom. Yeah, consent about sex acts, whatever. But that’s not what we’re talking about...we’re talking about the condom, not a sex act...it’s not defensible. You already said it was a shitty thing to do, but that doesn’t stop you from…

if you were such a staunch feminist you’d wanna hear more of women’s thoughts, not silence them by telling them they are feeble minded and a cunt and tell them to kill themselves.

“hey this isn’t working for me” HAS SERIOUS RISKS TO HER. BY REMOVING THE CONDOM. DONT PUT A WOMAN IN THAT POSITION.

So you take the low road. Not very cool or manly.