What is this nonsense. DJ Khaled’s 1 year old baby does not want a bracelet because he is a 1 year old baby. His conspicuous consumption, fame hungry daddy who likes to use him as a prop may want to get him one though.
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What are the ratios of male-to-female transgender people against female-to male? I ask because it seems from all I read that it must be about 19 m-t-f for every 1 f-to-m. We rarely near from female-to-male transgender voices. Is that because there are far fewer of them, because they find it harder to speak out about…
Well, I guess many of the women you share the world with are just not grown up and deserve rape then. That’s definitely a reasonable consequence for not feeling empowered.
So you’re apparently unaware of how an “if/then” clause works? “If you can’t recognize that, you’re not emotionally mature enough for sex.” You’re the one who charged right in, said, “That definitely applies to me, and I’m deeply offended!” Your problems =/= my fault.
I didn’t say it was assault, just that it’s not really fair to have that conversation during sex.
It’s not an MRA take. It’s an acknowledgment that men and women can feel different forms pressure at times during a relationship and while being intimate. That we all need to try and better understand and relate to each other and try to respect each other. But sure, I’m an MRA zealot just look at all my previous…
Well it was actually that you’ve stated you’re a man in previous comments, but ok. You know, I actually do feel empathy for you. For you to feel that men are at a disadvantage, for you to not even be conscious of the privilege you have means you must have had a lot go wrong for you. The view you have of women is…
You should be angry. The reality of living as a woman can be very upsetting. We’re undervalued and underpaid and literally killed by male partners all the fucking time. It’s pretty crazy that what’s “normal” in our society. Despite this, I manage to have a full and happy life, and I try to help people understand more…
wow, you associate with some shitty rapey people.
I don’t ascribe any negative traits to you. I notice that you’re really not good at having conversations without losing your shit and screaming like a toddler, but that’s really more of an observation than a judgment. Here’s a tip: If your defense for immediately leaping to fits of abuse is “Hey, I’m prone to verbal…
Most guys in the Bible Belt are about as sexist as that Google guy. The difference between what I’m saying and what he was saying—he was arguing that biology means men are meant to be in charge, but my point is that our culture is what puts these things in place.
I’m incredibly amused by your attempt to personally prove that “if you’re not mature enough” applied to you directly and vigorously. :)
“It was his frustrated sigh and, “Ugh, this thing,” a whine about it not feeling good. If sex is about pleasing your partner, it was seeing a partner unpleased. It was another page in a history of people-pleasing, of stepping over myself to give others what I think they want from me. It was an excuse to do the thing I…
Maybe the first time you bring that up should be before you’re having sex? 20 minutes in and it’s a little bit of a duress situation. I wouldn’t be able to make a rational decision then and would likely make some pretty shitty choices. Actually I have made some pretty shitty choices and I was lucky there were no…
Learn about gender socialization and ask for affirmative consent. Don’t assume no means no - look for enthusiastic, ongoing yes.
I read Predictably Irrational. It’s a great book and I highly recommend it to anyone who has ever wondered why humans do such stupid things. (Hopefully, he’ll do one on Trump voters.)
Basic rule of thumb, if you’re doing anything that may cause your partner regret the next day, then don’t. Obviously sexual assault, but say getting her a little drunk to lower her inhibitions, using high pressure tactics, being manipulative, using indirect tactics, and yes doing what this guy did. Are these all…
You should always be attentive to any sexual partner that you have. Don’t simply wait for what they say, watch their body language and responsiveness. If they seem to be stiff, or still, or constantly looking away, ask if they’re ok/enjoying what’s happening. Then they will likely feel safe enough to either tell you…
Fuck you you fucking sex bully. Read literally fucking anything about power dynamics in sexual assault. Spit that rapist’s logic out your mouth, fuckboy.