What about alive guys we'd have sex with if they were dead?

Easiest way to avoid this problem:

This has been big news here in the UK today, along with a dog with missing front legs called Roo.

I might have some resources to share with you.

First off, it's fantastic that you realized what's going on, and you want to get help. I JUST went through this (like, I finished my program two weeks ago), and I can relate to pretty much everything you said. Everyone's situation is obviously a little different, but here are my two cents:

Hi Liz,
I know I'm coming late to SNS but thought I might share with you a few things. Hopefully something here might be helpful.

I've detoxed 3 official times, 4 if you count my detox in custody. I wasn't having the physical symptoms that you are having with the alcohol, but either way it's a bitch at first. The…

Totally understand about the finance/insurance issue. I was given Librium to help detox & was only on that for the first three days. Detoxing off alcohol is much easier than coming off of long term benzo use!!! Librium is a benzo & makes you sleepy but you won't be given a dose that will make you addicted. It will…

Hey....recovering alcoholic here :) a year sober this week....just wanted to first of all wish you luck, and secondly suggest that you not completely dismiss the idea of AA. It is NOT a religious program, in spite of the use of the word God...I am not nor have I ever been a member of any organized religion and am not…

The most important thing isn't your therapist's personal opinion of you—it's you not dying from alcoholism. (I'm so glad you're trying to get help with this!)