As a cis lesbian, I’d like to say thank you for adding these thoughtful and sympathetic explanations in a complex conversation. The claims it started out with depressed me and raised some real TERF fearmongering red flags for me, so really, Thank You for making something good out of this and both diffusing and…

Hi. I’m personally not especially offended when people call it a disability unless it comes along with problematic opinions on Autism. (I have Aspergers.) That happens more often than I would like, though, coming across mom’s bravely breaking the not-exactly-silence about all the ways their disabled kids are burdens…