“To paraphrase Rabab Abdulhadi, when does the cost get high enough that you just shut up?”

My heart literally started pounding, reading about your experience with almost getting run off the road (and on the way home from a funeral for such a tragic loss to boot.) It sounds both terrifying and terrible, I’m so sorry. I feel very very fortunate and grateful because over the years, my experiences with…

Thank you! I was one of the few Jewish girls in my suburban high school in the 80's (lots of fun what with the constant JAP “jokes” among other things) and heard that we were both somehow total prudes and sex-crazed. Part of the weirdness is also the idea that we hate sex but use it to manipulate men to get what we…