Worf.

Give that man 20 years and he’s gonna be the hottest Santa ever

Perfect. This was perfect. You are perfect.

I wish it said “a idiot” instead, but, nothing is perfect

You’re right about it being better in a crisis or at work than with friendships. It took a lot of soul searching to realize that my “masculine” communications and help patterns were unusual. Growth Mindset! :)

Okay, I’m seeing that for you the phrase “most, but not all of whom are men” wasn’t indicative of a concrete enough understanding for you, but okay.

I think that I must be misunderstanding your point when you say that I’m “a pretty major piece of the puzzle there by not mentioning how systemic misogyny plays into the issue.” I don’t understand how that conflicts with what I said:

Er, I get that I was a part of the problem, which is what I think that you’re getting at. I don’t think I’m undercutting the complaint by saying that I’m an exception.

I’m not ignoring that “emotional labor factors into systemic sexism.” And, I’m not wishing any of that away.

As a part of adulting I’m trying to work on how bad I am at doing the emotional work. I am a cis-het woman, and I have not done the majority of the emotional work in any of my relationships. And, I don’t mean just sexual relationships, but friendships and acquaintanceships as well.

Can I travel back in time? Because if I could go back to 1989 I would love it. I would love it so much.

I thought AFF data was released too...

I had anything that would show while wearing a bikini lasered off years ago, which has made me much lazier about even trimming what’s left. Now I trim or shave when it I go on a major grooming frenzy (usually the same time deciding I need to do all the facials, or some crazy nail technique I saw on YouTube). Basically…

Exactly. This is absolutely the reason it would be a HORRIBLE idea.

Not just that, but, any corrections mean someone could completely change the meaning of something that has already been interacted with.

How many minions? They could be in charge of refreshments and various accoutrements, I mean they are minions.

Won’t someone think of the children?

The “fur vest” as a marker is ridiculous. How many of those searches for “fur vest” were actually searches for “fake fur vest” or “faux fur vest” instead? It’s hard to look cute during a winter like the last one in the Northeast, and hopping on a cold weather style trend (however stupid you’ll think it looks in few…

OMG I came to the comments to see if anyone did that and you not only did it but you did it so FAST