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Victim blaming then is it?

Do their beards get all tangled up?

There is a longstanding rumour that she cheated with Bieber after the 2012 Victoria's Secret show which was while they were still married, I was taking this incident as confirmation of that. Even if that wasn't true saying I fucked the mother of your child to insult someone is hardly classy.

Everyone that we watched it with thought the same thing. We came away from that feeling like Andi took him for a ride.

I think a lot of us girls have been in his shoes (lord knows I have.....multiple times). When someone has sex with you, they clearly don't have to be in love with you, but you at least think they might actually be interested. When that doesn't turn out to be the case, it is hurtful. It's very interesting (refreshing?)…

Don't believe her if you don't want to, but I'd argue that many people believe that having sex with someone is a pretty good way of getting to know them and deciding whether you'd be compatible.

I definitely agree, and I was really frustrated with her insistence that it should be private, because he (at least, according to the Wise Master Chris Harrison) tried to have that conversation with her privately! I don't know, to me, Andi came off as incredibly defensive during her whole conversation with him. It…

I don't watch the show either, but I had the same take on it from watching the clip.

This is pretty callous regardless of gender. If you know someone loves you and you aren't sure, it's probably not a good idea to sleep with them. Sex is a good way to get to know people in certain circumstances, but the cost/benefit under these particular circumstances might militate against being reckless with…

But honestly, when you have sex with one of the contestants on a televised game show, you have to expect someone might let the cat out of the bag.

I think the whole thing would have gone differently if she said "I had strong feelings for you but in the end I decided it just wasn't right for me."

I've been Nick too, and it hurts so bad, and you feel very used. And it's one thing if you're both in the same place emotionally but when one person is so much farther in, it's just mean.

She also said that she loved Josh from the first time she saw him, but that she never loved Nick, which isn't really compatible with being confused the whole time. It's hard to believe both.

Sex is definitely a way of getting to know someone. But I think all people have a responsibility to be aware of how their actions affect other people's feelings. (No one's responsible for another person's feelings, of course, but I think it's disingenuous to completely disavow the relationship between your actions and…

I agree, I of course understand that she has the right to make her own choices, but being physically intimate with someone who loves you and you don't feel the same way is cruel. I've called guys out for the same thing.

YES. All of this. I've been in situations like this, I've been the Nick, and it SUCKS. You just feel lead on. Seeing other comments telling him to man up or that he's being a baby for being hurt by this is so not okay with me.

I agree with "slippery slope to coercion" comment.