Yup - same here. My target dating demographic is 38-46. I’m drawn toward independent urban progressive women. But sometimes, OKC gets it horribly wrong. I’ll see a picture of the profile-owner in the desert, in her underwear, a viking hat, and giant boots, and I’ll be completely turned off.

The absolutely hilarious part of this is that, if she said, “You know what? Sure!” she would be up to her eyebrows in cock, while he fumbled around endlessly, eventually getting arrested for solicitation of an undercover cop on backpages.

To be fair, it played up the Argo part of it - the “truth is stranger than fiction” angle (more than a pro-US part). That was a more movie-worthy story than “Really Nice Canadians”. And if nothing else, this film did bring the actual events to light, so way more people know how it.

studies show [marriage is] a way better deal for men anyway

Fair enough - he acted out and that’s immature and crappy. You can get annoyed at the crappy behavior, but not at the fact that his feelings are hurt. That’s the biggest risk of being in casual mode, that one of your partners (or perhaps you yourself) are going to feel rejected.

Charming. You know, having zero empathy doesn’t make you some kind of cool cat.

One thing all this “sex is no big whoop” people may want to think about it is (a) Herps and HPV are everywhere and condoms don’t protect as well against those, as with HIV/others. Also, (b) those great contraceptives that offer 99+% protection, offer 0-1% lack of protection.

My ex wife considered it cheating. And cheated on me (in the factual sense) in “revenge”.

“Bonus option: Fuck her yourself. Make your husband watch the kids.”

Right, because every family has an earner who can easily cover all the bills on his/her own, so the other can provide full time care indefinitely to the kids.

The “stand up guy” in me wishes (a) it never happened, and (b) if it did, they had come clean immediately.

As a Pats fan, I *kind of* feel the same way as you. Just admit it TB.

In me old days, in the rare event that I’d hit a proper club, there were always scores of nannies. Hot nannies. It was crazy. Insane. I think it’s actually difficult to find otherwise.

He’s the guy who invented the movie Krull

They don’t call it the Hollywood Herps for nothing. Actually they don’t call it that, not that I’m aware of. Should they? Probably not. How about Herpywood?

I bet it was just a poker game and she had a couple of aces up her sleeve.

He must be working some very posh weddings and office holiday parties!

I can believe it - dying in a fight must be extremely rare, with all the onsite medical professionals, referees, padded gloves and surfaces etc.

Separate topic altogether (and one I wouldn’t even attempt to dispute). Today we’re being outraged by people dying in local jails.

That chart is per-100,000. It literally means that of 100,000 white folks in jail, 200 die in jail. Of 100,000 black folks in jail, 89 die. So that corrects for what you’re looking for. It doesn’t belie a conspiracy against whites. You’d have to see the all the data: age distribution, natural causes, etc. Guessing…