if you don’t want them, you shouldn’t get them, so this isn’t meant to change your mind but most of this is already fine/nothing to be worried about anyway.

in addition to what NooYawkah said...

She was available, but not slutty.

probably “cue”, though (that’s the one that starts something, or signals it to start).

lol, you might be right, and what an amusing thought that is (both the planned hallway, and him trying to get through it).

i’m still re-watching scenes from the last episode of season 4... all of it was so beautiful and sad at the same time. nervous about this next season, but still interested to see where it goes.

i like the silvery/snowy hallway, if it just wasn’t so... cramped :(

i sort of agree... but OTOH, if i hadn’t indulged a few beer snobs i wouldn’t have found the things that i love now, so it’s not totally worthless.

maybe you could just feel happy that you’re not someone that has to deal with something worse than what you’ve got? if you can’t understand it personally, that’s one thing, but i think talking about it and finding common ground on it is better than suffering alone (especially if you don’t even have that family to rely…

nothing is enough for some people. nothing.

seconded... it seems to sound worse in writing, but for the most part, no one is really hurt or upset by this, at least in my group of friends. we’re sad we didn’t get to say goodbye, for a second, but then we just figure so-and-so had enough/was tired/wanted to go and that’s the end of it; back to having a good time. 

ideally i’d just enjoy the day off by myself entirely but social obligation doesn’t really permit that. i’ve found other ways of coping and compromising but if i didn’t have my phone in those times of need it would be unbearable (and would probably drive me to just drink more wine instead, which is a path i’d rather…

How can you give up your phone for an entire day, much less a day in which you might be cooking unfamiliar recipes, checking in with traveling family members, or FaceTiming loved ones who live too far away to make it to the celebration?

only tangentially related, but it’s not like Kubrick was a saint in his treatment of people, as i’m sure Shelley Duvall can attest.

this goes into detail, and also mentions/links to some previous write-ups on this: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/ywa8v7/with-her-new-shop-the-racist-backlash-to-marie-kondo-continues

yes, there is an alternative where you get to be willfully ignorant, and base a weird hate for her on that ignorance ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ it’s sad, but you are really committed to it so, not much anyone else can do. have a good, mad weekend i guess.

pretty much everyone who has moved from one house/living space to another has done this, but somehow it’s outrage when she says it (and bonus points if you make fun of her for thanking things). gross, gross gross.

because that’s miles away from what her method/goal actually is. stop listening to the people insisting this wrong thing and take some time to read up on it yourself.

maybe if you were silly enough to misinterpret her method in a way that caused you to throw out things you want or need (and can’t think to buy a ladle anywhere else), this is just... fate you brought upon yourself.

there’s a bunny too!