I was visiting my parents over the weekend and my phone died. I had left the charger at one parent's home and couldn't return there for hours, so was phoneless for nearly an entire day. I doubt I am the only person on earth this kind of thing has happened to. For many people, online dating is just one aspect of their…

I personally prefer that a guy just fades out if he's not interested after one date rather than giving me a mini-breakup speech. To me the fadeout IS common courtesy- it feels less like out and out rejection and more just like, eh, didn't work out.

And his bullshit about how what else can men do but stare and leer at women they find attractive. Because women exist for the sole purpose of men to look at and touch, OBVIOUSLY.

If preferring Logan over Duncan is wrong I don't want to be right.

I do too but today I kept seeing the dog torture gif and it really upset me. Now I'm scared to risk it!

I feel like the conversations are less interesting AND the gif troll problem persists. I like reading/participating in the comments, and there are some good ones in the greys, but it's too risky now to look at them b/c of the sick gifs. It's a sucky situation. :/

What did he have to go through? He chose to read an article that phrased things in a way he didn't like, and then he chose to complain about it...how is that going through something?

Do you wonder if women are turned out by vaginal exams? Childbirth? Not everything involving your privates is a turn on. Surely this is true for men as well. Also are you not aware that women often need a bit of foreplay to get turned on before sex? If you are aware of this, why would you think that shoving a small…

Kelly Marcel and I have very different ideas of the definition of the word "genius".

People with BPD can and do abuse others...just because it stems from abandonment issues and their own demons doesn't make it okay. Lots of people's abusive behaviors stems from horrible shit they've been through and are experiencing in their own head. BPD is hard to live with, but can be very hard for loved ones of a…

That's the thing with BC- it's so different for every person. I think each woman needs to explore her options and figure out what works for her, and that could be totally different than what works for you. Even women in the same age group and station in life will have different responses to the pill. I just don't…

Some people need specific hormone combos. Different things work for different people. IUDs are not for everyone. Maybe you're a medical professional....regardless, you shouldn't be dispensing unsolicited medical advice to strangers. Have an opinion about your own form of BC. Not about mine.

I once had a girl tell me she loved being on her period because it's magical and she was soooo in touch with her body and blah blah and maybe I should try just have a different mindset. GAG.

Yup! I've had several people who are not medical professionals give me unsolicited advice on the topic. It's really something.

Nope. Lots of women need hbc for medical reasons.

I am in the same boat. Painful cysts and debilitating periods are horrid!!

I read her tone more as mocking conservative anti-BC folks trying to use this as propaganda on the evils of BC. BC has risks but should be available to those who want it, and I think the author of this post is being flippant about people using this study to further their women-shouldn't-be-fucking cause, not flippant…

Yeah it's fucking weird! It bugs me every time I see it.

Just because it's common usage doesn't make it right. After I read the entire article, I was like, "Clearly she was raped", but I can still see why people would be confused by the wording.

If you look at sandinafishbowl's comment history, it doesn't seem like she is an MRA asshole who eagerly jumps in on every comment thread on every rape story. There is problematic language in this post: "As the two began having sex", that makes it kind of confusing. The two were NOT having sex- he was assaulting her. …