I have a problem with not speaking up for myself and "letting" things happen to me. Especially where alcohol is involved. And I'm way too old for this shit. This is a really great article and is making me think about the relationship I entered into a month ago with a "it happened way before I was ready for it too…

I've watched three or four episodes total over the years. Just enough to completely not get the appeal. The Kardashian sisters all seem to think that acting dumb, helpless, and vapid is so f'ing cute! It's not cute, it's just boring. It just does not compute for me.

I have bingeing problems that bounce from food to alcohol to shopping. Lately I've felt so good that I've been eating like a normal person (which includes some junk food, but one candy bar instead of ten, etc.), but then guess what? I've been drinking WAY too much lately, to the point, where I have to admit it's…

Ding ding ding. I agree. This site is for selfish people who want to satisfy their own ID. It's not for people who care about their spouse and what they may want.

dress in head to toe green, put a lot of black eyeliner and shadow around your eyes, and you are a black eyed pea (better before the band was around though)

Target sells cats for hats! My kitty has a ladybug hat and a crab hat!

I don't particularly like her but she's come out with it now because he can't hurt her anymore. I'm sure she kept it secret because she, you know, wanted to live. It is very very common for women to keep mum about abusive husbands.

Dina was always my favorite, and I just read her blog post about all this and I still love her. Way to stay classy Dina!

The reason I like to wait wasn't mentioned here. For me, it is because it is more exciting to let the anticipation build, to really let the desire build until you can't take it anymore, and to have something to really look forward to for a while. Let it simmer, shall we say.

For three summers when I was 15 -18, I was a junior counselor at a day camp. The head swim counselor (who at 30 was the OLDEST counselor) had slippery hands, there were a lot of wrestling / chicken fight matches in that pool that were a lot of fun but his hands would "accidentally" touch you places they shouldn't. A…

I had a stalker making numerous death threats. He had not physically beaten me but was indeed following me, showing up at my work, etc. He was charged with FELONY stalking and the ADA told me she thought she could get the conviction but that felony stalking charges always got knocked down to misdemeanor if it was a…

Kim needs therapy in the worst way and also probably recovery from whatever her addictions are, but I did feel badly for Brandi. She had not done anything offensive when Kim said she didn't want Brandi on her team because she didn't like her. The manner in which she said it was like a 4 year old, who hasn't yet…

It's interesting that you say that. I am also on wellbutrin for depression; it's the only thing that doesn't make me gain 20 lbs. I soon found myself less depressed and more anxious, like I would suddenly worry terribly on my way home from work that my house was on fire and my pets couldn't get out. Sometimes to the…

Does anyone know who is Dana marrying? And where is her wealth from? Is it all the fiancees, or is she independently wealthy.

And it just so happens that girls want to sleep with the guy who is fun to be around and nice and considerate WAY more than they want to sleep with the manipulative player douche type. Being fun and nice, being yourself instead of fronting = WAY more sex. Seriously.

Neither b&b or Be Curly work on my coarse kinky curls, they are like nothing in my hair at all. Also, like most people with thick coarse curls, my hair is really dry, nothing makes my hair look oily and I don' t have to wash it very often. DevaCurl products work for me, especially the ArcAnGEL.

you must have fine curls, yes? Neither b&b or Be Curly work on my coarse kinky curls, they are like nothing in my hair at all. Also, like most people with thick coarse curls, my hair is really dry, nothing makes my hair look oily and I don' t have to wash it very often.

Yes yes yes on DevaCurl ArcAnGEL. I have really thick, coarse and kinky, curly hair that wants to frizz and any product that says "use a quarter sized amount" has never worked for me. A quarter sized amount will do exactly one strand of my hair (I get it thinned out all the time). I buy ArcAnGEL in huge economy sizes…

Oh how I love the entire Lexicon of Love album. And I own it on vinyl and CD. All of My Heart was my lovelorn anthem for a HS boyfriend.

I totally agree with you. And if that's true, I am basically a fat person in hiding as I've avoided obesity only out of a combination of an extremely fast metabolism and lots of physical activity. I do give in to my cravings ALL THE TIME and if you put something out from of me, I will eat ALL of it.