Yes voting. For President but also for commissioners and judges and sheriffs and magistrates.

The running joke in my family was that my dad married my mom just to get to hang out with my brother (her kid from first, really shitty marriage). The second they started walking back down the aisle, my brother said “DO I GET TO CHANGE MY NAME NOW?” and immediately ran to the wedding register, and there’s a pic of him…

I’ve been obsessed with the Wade family since I saw Kaavia’s Instagram. I’m obsessed with that shady baby and how cute and shady she is. I hope my future chocolate drop will be the same.

Smoking on the set? WTF? I love GU and am glad she’s calling out the casual racism and sexism that privileged white dudes get away with on the regular, not to mention the fucking stone cold narcissism of knowingly breaking a law and not giving a rat’s ass about other people.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

a few years ago the podcast “you must remember this” did a great multi-part arc about Jane Seberg and Jane Fonda (iirc it’s called the 2 janes) about how basically Seberg and Fonda had the same views and problems with the industry...only Seberg died and Fonda reinvented herself.

In the podcast episode of The C-Word that covers Jean Seberg, Lena Dunham (I know everyone here hates her, blah blah) says “It doesn’t matter who the dad Is, and It actually doesn’t matter who she fucked, and It also doesn’t matter...nothing matters because the point Is, a government Institution sought to attack a…

My local pet food place has curb side pickup, and even though we’ve been told in Ontario that they can open up next week, they say that they are not going to; it’s not worth the risk. She had SARS when it came through Toronto, and says she won’t risk anything like it again if she can help it.

Therapy is a really good idea, and it can be very helpful in understanding what’s going on; it can be very disorienting, but the grieving process cannot be hurried. It will go at its own pace, so for him to feel depressed a month in, is not surprising. On top of that, he’s having to deal with and acknowledge his…

Ty! It is much, much brighter than I expected, considering both dyes were listed as “pastel” omfg they are so not — but maybe it’ll mellow out after a couple more washings? The whole thing is maybe evidence that I’m going completely effing crazy, because if you asked me to name my least-favorite color there’s a strong…

Your hair is so pretty! Your sandwich is so pretty! I don’t know which is prettier but thanks for sharing. :) My favorite sandwich since my childhood (in the suuuuper-healthy midwest) is peanut butter and bacon on toast - it’s the original salty/sweet breakfast sammie! (And apparently Elizabeth Taylor ate one every…

Your hair is gorgeous and your sammich looks very good. But I beg to differ on a couple of points. Bread should be very dark sunflower rye, or good sourdough. And while I love leeks (and am Welsh, so I had better), sauerkraut with extra-sharp or smoked cheddar is the way to go.

WHAT’S THE WORD? Our local bar (not the only one, but the only one we go to) is reopening with very limited capacity and roped-off socially-distanced seating on their huge outdoor space, so we’re gonna swing by and have a drink if people are actually following the guidelines ... and if they aren’t, we’ll pick up a…

Imagine expressing how you have learned to cope with your mental health, only to be told you’re wrong because it might not be relatable for everyone.

I don’t recall seeing many stories about how lonely it must’ve been for Meghan to leave her family (the non-trashy ones) and friends on this continent to move to London and get trashed by the English press.

I think he just thinks other people are gross, unless they are Barbie doll looking women about to fuck him. Remember the story about the man who almost died in front of him at maralago? He fell and cracked his head on the marble floor and there was blood pooling around his head the way Trump tells it. And all he can…

Ummm....

Homosexual event = brunch

I got zero tongue in cheek from this. Maybe because I haven’t really had human interaction, but it just comes off as pissy and performative. 

You have some work to do. If you think kindness is the limit of what is needed to stop mass death of Black teenagers, you have some work to do. If you think the primary meaning of this essay was that you should apologize for something, or was even about white people, you have some work to do. If you don't understand…