I don't think it's fair to say they're necessarily more embarrassed, because I've read countless accounts of women who were raped talking about how they were too ashamed of what happened to talk about it.

I'll never understand people who say, "Oh, they said I can say whatever I want, therefore he DESERVED to have a bad thing happen to him!" It's as if morality completely ceases to exist when there are no consequences for you as an individual.

Because it was so shocking that he didn't know how to respond? Because it was traumatizing and he began emotionally shutting down? Because even in the midst of an assault he may have felt uncomfortable pushing or hitting a woman? Because he, as a victim of assault, didn't feel a responsibility to respond in the…

Thank you. I was coming here to say exactly that, but you phrased it perfectly.

That said, I can't wait to hear more insightful and well-informed commentary from all the people who crawled out of the woodwork to say "even though he was there and said he was raped, I, random internet asshole, am better-informed than he…

That Lauten never matured beyond a Mean Girl stage.

Poor Bull.

I think you mean Schrödinger's scat, ;)

I was going to comment about how I don't think he was trying to be racist but was just too stupid to realize that it was racist. Then he went "you're the real racist", and now it's fuck that dude. I see he just don't care.

Whatever people say or do when they're drunk – it's already in them. Acohol only lowers a person's inhibitions. It's not like some other foreign being takes them over. Violent drunks are violent people, even if they suppress it most of the time. Couples who fight when drunk: the booze only loosens their tongues...

Anyone else here old enough to remember that Caroline in the City episode where Caroline gets a cereal based on her comic strip, and then has to shut the whole thing because the cereal shape makes her think too much of vulvae?

Women can't win. If we stay silent about our harassment/abuse, people will blame us for not saying anything. If we DON'T stay silent, we're still condemned or worse, killed. When are people finally going to understand that WE are not responsible for the actions of men? This man was so insulted that a woman would…

Alcohol is a factor in a majority of domestic violence cases. I don't understand why they seem to be implying that it excuses the behavior.

Somewhere on the Internet some white MRA guy is reading this and the only thing he is taking away from it is "Man, how does a racist piece of shit like that manage to talk a woman into having sex with him bu a Nice Guy(tm) like me keeps getting shot down?". I guarantee it.

Everyone has issues. I'd personally rather date the bundle of issues that can at least behave itself in public and not use a country's flag as toilet paper, but that's just my opinion.

Seriously. It's like a ham somehow became sentient and someone gave it a gun and a badge.

i mean i am also enthusiastic about those things but like

i would just buy hyannisport and be like WHO'S IN CHARGE NOW MOTHERFUCKERS.

"Yes, because the biggest and most dangerous scandal the Kennedys have ever had with women was definitely Taylor Swift buying some nearby property."

""Maria was terrified that it would be another nightmare like the Taylor situation," the source says. "Taylor Swift was their biggest fear. They all thought it was going to turn out like that.""