I’m super late to the party but I didn’t know you were SE Asian. I always assumed you were black. You’re one of my fav commenters. I’d be interested in hearing your experiences.

It depends on where you are in some cases too. In less metro areas i never meet bi men who actually date guys. Especially if they’re black

I think there’s a difference between being selective and self care. I’ve had a lot of bad experiences and at least as a gay man I don’t see them as anything than hookups. If I were a woman I’d think differently. A bisexual man has a lot more to gain being with a woman than with me.

Most of my friends are bi males. I’m aware of the struggle but that’s not really my concern. My heart comes before your hardship. It’s kinda difficult and sucky because most bi guys are tops and I’m a bottom90 percent of the time. Also bi guys tend to have interests in non stereotypically gay things I enjoy. We…

I’m talking to two bi guys now. One I didn’t know was bi and the other I thought was straight but we hooked up. I prefer the other one because we click more but he’s never actually dated a guy and hes a recent ex junkie and hes still getting over his ex gf. Hes almost exactly like my ex. The other guy seems nice but…

I’m fully aware they’re not the same thing. I’m just saying that’s my list of varied experiences. Black or otherwise I don’t find many bi guys who are into dating men or solely monogamous if they’re out at all. Out bi black men are rare. It sucks because usually we click in a nonsexual level because I like more…

I’m a gay man and I choose not to date bisexual men. At least not anymore. Most of the men I’ve dated have been bi. I get tired of finding out he’s married, he’s been playing me the whole time, being a dirty little secret or being left for a female. I know the societal pressures they face. I don’t care. I am about…

Okay and?

Just ask present day Taylor Swift.

I’m scared.

I could show you pictures of my exes and you would see I am kinda into ugly if he’s young, white, tall and has nice eyes.

That was fucking delicious!

I am sorry.

Paul Ryan has no lips. I need lips in order to get my sexual pleasure.

I never watched Deep Space Nine. I liked Voyager though.

I have this weird thing where I am incredibly attracted to really conservative dicks. The first guy I ever fell in love with was this really redneck Evangelical kid back in college. Idk maybe its because I’m very liberal and open minded myself that the idea of some guy far on the other spectrum literally inserting…

So I have a confession:

Thank you that means a lot

And I wonder who would want me. I’m damaged fruit. I’ll never trust a man again

Yeah.