Oh, revelation. That's probably why I have an aversion to cuddling too. My brain automatically goes "I know where this is going! Abort! Abort!" It sucks.

Boy, what you wrote sounds so incredibly familiar to me. I want to want to have sex too because I feel like it would improve my relationship with my SO and maybe I'd be a happier person too. I don't know. It's hard though and I don't wish it on anyone. I don't care for cuddling either, but my SO does so I have to…

I believe it's some sort of filter because I've seen it on other pics/videos. It's annoying as hell. The pink/purple dot later on looks like an organism through a microscope.

Oh my god, I love this. It made me tear up and the hairs on my arms stood on end. She is wonderful and this guy touched my heart. Music is awesome.

Don't forget that she's also a former exotic dancer and many people say, "What has she done to get where she is besides date Kanye and Wiz?" Personally, I don't care either way. And I do agree that she is hot!

I wish this came in stick form! I had the tube, but it didn't moisturize my lips well enough. Probably just need to drink more water.

I wish this came in stick form! I had the tube, but it didn't moisturize my lips well enough. Probably just need to…

I've heard that brushing damages the hair. I comb with a widetooth comb when my hair is saturated with conditioner. If my hair is short then I just use my fingers. I have not brushed my hair in a LONG time.

Thank you. It's been disheartening reading all of these responses calling people who identify as asexual or somewhere on the spectrum as "special snowflakes." I can't speak for anyone else but myself when I say that I'd rather not identify as a Gray-A. I'd really rather not have sex because I know it's important to my…

Ditto! My family would buy coconuts and drink the water. I tried it once and yeah, no thanks.

Definitely a great suggestion! I pretty much started out with those albums. I am forever in love with Homogenic and Vespertine. I like Post better than Debut. After that I would check out everything else. I am not enamored by her later material but there is always at least a few great songs on each album.

Interesting tidbit. My SO pees sitting down now after he got used to doing it at my parents' house. My dad literally told him to do that in the bathroom because the pee splashes corroded the wall heater.

I have not seen that but it sounds hilarious!

Fat transfer! Take excess fat from your stomach and elsewhere and put it in your hips and butt. Voila!

Seriously. Ah well!

I feel you too as a halfway to 31, 30 year old. I feel totally unaccomplished and like I wasted the past ten years of my life. Sighs. There are plenty who feel the same way you do.

Sounds like my relationship minus the vaginismus. Thankfully, I don't have to deal with vaginal pain, but I have never really had a sex drive. All sex is maintenance sex and sometimes it makes me sad. I want to feel desire. I want to initiate, but I really don't have it in me. We have sex at least once a week and…

I'm glad to hear you're doing well and that your kitty is still by your side. There's nothing quite like the love of a pet.

I'm so glad you had your cat during that time!

Ham is Yaya's middle name!

Congrats on the job! Still trying to work on that bit. Ugh. My aunt had an evil cat. I never did anything to that cat and whenever I stayed over the weekend he would attack me and scratch my legs whenever I came down the steps. When that cat died she got another and he would smack us as we walked by the fridge and…