Another poster (‘begandchoose’) already answered you far more eloquently and with a lot more patience than I can muster.

Still not Elder-sanctioned “punishment gang rape.” You’re comparing rape culture to “dystopian/ Game of Thrones” rape and tilting your head at those pointing out the difference like a confused dog; it’s ridiculous.

Not legally isntitutionalized and enforced as a means of reprimand, no. On that count it’s very much O.

You get what a code of conduct is, right? It’s the same reason a minister is frowned upon when he’s found hooking up with 19-year-olds on Craigslist.

Yeah, like, why doesn’t she take the compliment? They’d probably still fuck her if she wasn’t such a bitch too?

You WATCH IT.

I’m getting a kick out of these and it’s an education in football, but if you guys ever more to hockey and target the Habs, so help me God, I’ll destroy the entire Gawker network.

The short of it is: you don’t.

From the baby’s mom to the woman holding the sign to the guy taking the picture, ALL those people look aggressively stupid.

That AMA generated so much sad jism tonight. Like, two water towers. Filled to the brim.

All I am doing is trying to understand the situation from her perspective since she was probably not a baby killing agenda. “I just gave birth to a child I clearly did not want. I made sure to be quiet while giving birth to not alert housemates. I did not tell family about this probably because I am supposed to be the…

blame pretty much no woman ever for aborting or killing their newborn.

And you are confusing self-righteousness and some pretty deep head-in-the-sand-shoving for ‘empathy’.

If a single life could be saved with a drop off box then I don’t see the problem??

I threw my hands in the air at:

I don’t think the system could have been more in her favor in this case, to be honest. “There needs to be a heated, padded box, where you can drop off the baby?” Seriously? Would that have changed anything here? Do you think the train of thought was…

Wait and see. :) Everyone thinks they’re a gardener, lol. The other commenter kind of alluded to this in how it was hard for her to just admit and voice that she’s a rose and needs more show of care. And for guys, it’s especially hard as we’re meant to be providers and low-maintenance. (Although, I can’t tell you how…

Haha, why thank you. That one alone took me a wrecked relationship to figure out, so I’m afraid not. Although, it has proven universally true in my subsequent ones. For what it’s worth, I don’t think it’s a deal breaker if you’re analogically incompatible (i.e. two flowers or two gardeners). It just helps to have that…

Is it sick that I hope they release the “fun date” selfies tracking their progressive despair?

That’s what it evens out to but my theory (objective formula that it clearly is) is that even when the chore wheel is perfectly 50/50 some peole still overall prefer to be one to the other.I’m a gardener. I’m more fulfilled by someone asking me for help and providing the support than being supported (not that it’s not…