All I am doing is trying to understand the situation from her perspective since she was probably not a baby killing agenda. “I just gave birth to a child I clearly did not want. I made sure to be quiet while giving birth to not alert housemates. I did not tell family about this probably because I am supposed to be the…

blame pretty much no woman ever for aborting or killing their newborn.

And you are confusing self-righteousness and some pretty deep head-in-the-sand-shoving for ‘empathy’.

If a single life could be saved with a drop off box then I don’t see the problem??

I threw my hands in the air at:

I don’t think the system could have been more in her favor in this case, to be honest. “There needs to be a heated, padded box, where you can drop off the baby?” Seriously? Would that have changed anything here? Do you think the train of thought was…

Wait and see. :) Everyone thinks they’re a gardener, lol. The other commenter kind of alluded to this in how it was hard for her to just admit and voice that she’s a rose and needs more show of care. And for guys, it’s especially hard as we’re meant to be providers and low-maintenance. (Although, I can’t tell you how…

Haha, why thank you. That one alone took me a wrecked relationship to figure out, so I’m afraid not. Although, it has proven universally true in my subsequent ones. For what it’s worth, I don’t think it’s a deal breaker if you’re analogically incompatible (i.e. two flowers or two gardeners). It just helps to have that…

Is it sick that I hope they release the “fun date” selfies tracking their progressive despair?

That’s what it evens out to but my theory (objective formula that it clearly is) is that even when the chore wheel is perfectly 50/50 some peole still overall prefer to be one to the other.I’m a gardener. I’m more fulfilled by someone asking me for help and providing the support than being supported (not that it’s not…

My theory when it comes to relationships and fights is that just as everyone is either a flower and a gardener (someone finds more fulfillment in ‘taking care of’ or ‘being taken care of’), people have one of two approaches to “little fights”: they either reinforce your faith/commitment in the relationship or they…

I love how the upteeth dead-eyed superhero movie by Marvel is the scrappy underdog you’re rooting for.

You are correct. I believe in absolute values. I believe getting naked for a camera is something that dignified, self-respecting, and classy humans do not do. I also believe murder is wrong, homosexuals shouldn’t get married, or parent, and that drug abuse is wrong.

Dear R Henry,

I guarantee you he’s fat too. 100%. That guy is so ridiculously common.

Um, Tommy Craggs didn’t have to quit. That was his petulant choice.

An interesting read, thank you. And not to be the internet cynic, but if in 7 years of marriage “the worst” was still giving a dog back to a shelter, your marriage will have been an exceptionally happy one.

There are few men I hate as virulently as I do this guy.

a) You’re kind of defending what she did.

Yeah, it really doesn’t a genius to decipher his success. He’s the hot girl at the sports bar that’s genuinely super into sports. Gamers love someone that doesn’t look like them and that they can aspire to. We all do.

You feel worse about the calories though.