I guess my hope is that there could be other ways to identify one's type. Like, maybe people could identify where on the spectrum of bro-iness to intellectual-iness they want their man to be. Or maybe an illustrated sliding scale between really baggy jeans and really skinny jeans? Maybe this already happens? I…

I tend to agree with what you're saying. And I don't think preferences are always sinister, but I think that when you're dating online, and you actively put it out there that you are seeking a type, race isn't a good parameter, so people shouldn't check those boxes.

I didn't know this about her, but it makes me love her even more.

Nope. -isms and -ists, such as sexsim/sexist and racism/racist, imply a power dynamic is being supported.

Very well put!

Barf!

I think "prejudiced" is a better term than "racist" in this situation.

I'm watching re-runs of KUWTK right now, and it's the episode where they're in Paris and doing the dress fittings, etc.

I hope everything's okay!! Hugs for you!

Right??? My minimum wage job was also where I was sexually harassed, was subject to racist comments, dealt with the worst customers, and had the most unpredictable hours.

Yeah. I've made big bucks, but I've also made little bucks, and I didn't work any less hard when I made little bucks.

On the other hand, if this had happened while classes were in session it might have been really difficult to manage coursework with grieving. In any case, it was super nice of your adviser to give you a day off. If I'm ever the boss of anything, I'm going to be the kind who makes sure people have time to grieve when…

This makes me want to rearrange my furniture so I can do this at home when I'm bored/frustrated/tired/hungover.

You just made me laugh for real, which I appreciate, because after tearing up over the video, I read the comments and really started crying.

:)

Oh my god, you made me cry again. My dog leans against my leg when I'm in the kitchen too! (Not to be close to me; she wants to be close to whatever I might drop on the floor while I prepare a meal, but still).

Posts like this make me cry. I don't know why I click on them. If my dog died, I wouldn't leave the house for a week.

Is that Harry Styles getting hit with tampons? Has Adultosaur seen this??

Oh my god, his poor girlfriend. I can't even imagine how shitty and betrayed she must feel.

hhahahaha!