i didn’t say they were being “less dicky” and i pretty much stated they are assholes and behave horribly at matches.

my husband is turkish and we travel to turkey regularly. football matches are no joking matter and i’ve seen stadiums almost burn to the ground for a regular rivalry between two local teams, as well as players being attacked and assaulted mercilessly. more than once all men have been banned from attending live matches…

booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

volunteer? join a knitting group? start an etsy store? something that involves (slightly stimulating) interactions with other adults that gives you a break and allows you to focus on you.

i had paid maternity leave for one year and i was back at work two weeks after i had my daughter. being home all the time wasn’t an option for my sanity either. it’s ok.