I don’t think you can blame weed for this one, champ. Lots of college students lose their way or have plans change. I went to college with plenty of pot heads. Majority of them, myself included, didn’t move on to heavier drugs or derail our dreams because of the wacky weed. 

I'd be more TEAM AMBER if she'd just kept it classy and left out the Ray J nut comment (because no needs that visual).