I completely agree. No irony when I say the woman should have a choice as to what to do with her own body. If a woman decides to use her hands to give a massage, that’s legal. If a woman decides to use her vagina to ride a dude’s dick, why shouldn’t that be legal as well? Is her vagina somehow dirtier than her hands?…

Or as George Carlin once said,

Yeah, I never even thought of it as an ownership thing. I always thought of it as a “I like you, let’s be close” thing. It never would’ve bothered me if done the other way around (and I’m not the tallest guy in the world). But, hey, I can see the subtext for sure.

I need to tell my wife, who sometimes throws my arm over her shoulder, that she’s wrong and should feel possessed.

I always felt the same way. There’s some PDA that looks more egalitarian, but there are certain postures that some guys take that always rub me the wrong way. It’s hard to put a finger on what the line is, but the worst is a guy who stands directly behind a girl and sorta walks with her like they are one two-legged…

I mean from a person to person thing that makes total sense; people should respect their partner’s wishes. But it also seems like a weird thing to critique in other people’s relationships.