fun selfies?

where did Alle go? She was the one with the cool pinup look, right?

let me know when you do! :P

The first 3 are liquid lipstick. The application and the finish once they dry are a bit different than lipgloss. Plus, I'm sure this was more like a swatch. Foundation or primer can keep it from bleeding and help make it stay longer. I saw it as a quick demo on how to use these, and then they'll use them for tutorials

of course they're cute! That's why they get away with everything!

While I'm not sure about the legal process, it's all about dirt.. I mean, I'm sure that when you're emotionally distressed, you have highs and lows, you feel shitty some days, you might be inconsistent with what you say because you have conflicting feelings and you're unfiltered. So, I feel for her because having…

I only had to see the title in another website to know this was creepy AF!

I thought it made him look tropy. Like, of course all of the killings of unarmed kids is a problem, it shouldn't happen... But I think that the cop's speech was basically "yeah, we caught you telling the truth of how stereotypically racist you are" so that people can feel a sense of vindication and justice and even…

You sound really sweet. I forgot to add, that maybe he hasn't been all that involved with you when you get sick because it's minor. So, maybe if he sees you're mostly OK, he's like whatevs, but would be willing to step up if you're unable.

your partner doesn't sound all that bad, just a little bit aloof and/or self-involved, but maybe not bad by nature. I think he might just need a talk about expectations when things aren't going well. Maybe he didn't bother to get you tea because he saw you as not super sick/helpless... I don't know... It is something…

Haha! I really hope my hypothetical kid isn't hanging out at Starbucks( I hope they learn to love better coffee), but I meant it as an example of the fact that you know, kids will try to find ways around restrictions. I mean, inmates get guns and knives inside prisons... Like I said, obviously your kid(singular, I…

i get where you're coming from, and I usually love and agree with your posts, but you're underestimating the ability of teenagers to be the little shits they usually are(we usually all were little shits). There is way too much access to internet. So you have limited data, so what! Starbucks, the mall, some schools,…

soooo true! Also, add in the mix OCD & depression mixed with menopause, mixed with I want mu daughter to be my best friend, but only if she's forever virginal, doesn't even look at a boy without mom's approval, never trusts or talks about important things with the other kids her age, just me, texts me everyday, wants…

huh.. Thanks for answering so quickly.. I'm clueless too

i honestly thing the earlobe thing is a lot tamer, although I know I'm culturally biased; I had mine pierced at the hospital when I was 1 day old, and of course it's super heteronormative, but I think that A-seeing as how it was done at the hospital, it probably carried less risks(I sure as hell wouldn't take my baby…

tangentially related: the whole #ask her more thing, makes me roll my eyes a bit because I can kind of understand having a portion of the events focus on the fashion, and asking who designed your dress isn't inherently offensive, but " Fashion police"? That's something worth picketing. There is nothing more to it than…

i get that she was being a dick, but how is body shaming better? :/

I had the idea that it was "unclean" for white people hair because you need to put a lot of goop in it to make the locks stick, but that with black hair, it is easy to do locks, so you could do it, take it off the next day, do it again a few days later. I'm obviously not very knowledgeable, but I thought the…

When I heard this, ai thought it meant that her hair looked as overehelming as patchouli is an overwhelming smell. Do people with locks put patchouli oil in their heads? I'm missing context...

I think it's a stretch-a big stretch- to compare piercing earlobes to circumcision, so I took it one step further..... While I understand that things that have been normalized by culture should be questioned and we should ask ourselves if we should really be doing it, you're comparing apples and oranges.