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that's great though... Being an aunt is more fun

I'm honestly on the fence... I'm Late twenties, stable BF, serious we'll be married some day serious, but I'm not sure I want a kid. I loved when I lived with my nephew cuz I got to do all kinds of things with him, and being part of his life, even as a shit head teenager felt fulfilling and joyful(especially when he…

I totally feel you; the problem is that she's saying it as if people were lying to her on purpose to make her feel scared or something...

I think that it is unfortunately EXPECTED and DEMANDED that women feel this way. I think men get away with still having a life outside of their kids, even if their family and providing are priorities...

I think that if I should ever have a child, I want the same attitude as you: the kid is a priority, but at the same time, I don't get why people make it seem like it is the most necessary of requirements to be a good parent. Like... Life is not, or should not be determined and defined by before and after having…

I have a friend who would strictly hand-wash everything baby related.... I was like wuuuut?! I'm Assuming you used a washing machine? Her argument was that her machine was old and couldn't get all the baby gunk out of the clothes properly like she could by rubbing on every stain... IDK... When her baby was like 1, she…

I'm sorry to hear you went through all that... Having had a history of depression, it is one of the things that scares me the most about contemplating bio-kids.

You know... I was trying to be supportive of her narrative cuz good for her on having the baby happies instead of the blues, and being #Blessed! All the time... But this right here is smug as fuck! Yes... I'm SURE no one warned you about that! Plus, some women naturally don't produce enough milk, even on special…

This woman's train of thought:

See... I agree... That and the "is her womb occupied yet?" headlines are awful; nevertheless, she puts herself in the covers of tabloids, so I wonder how much of that is on purpose..

What you're saying makes sense, but I feel that there needs to be a better system where the police heads the investigation, and someone from the investigative team(PD in general or something) acts as liason/advocate for the victim and arranges for the accused rapist to at least have to maintain certain distance from…

So, I hearwhat you're saying, but toddlers play and run and sweat and get dirt and gunk and boogers all over themselves.. So, maybe not a bath, but a quick rinse?

I come from a tropical country, and when is hot as hell, a rinse of cool water is all you can do to stay cool throughout the day, especially if no AC is available. To me, Naya Rivera sounds like one of those people who is like "I know shit about my heritage, but I'll pretend I'm knowledgeable cuz I'm brown and I wanna…

I wholeheartedly agree with you. I meant it more in a "I like doing nice things for my spouse, and reassuring them I love them and have their back"... The specifics should vary withinh each relationship, but not because of forced gender roles, but because of what suits each couple. I just find it kinda sad that it is…

i sometimes don't get Jez writers... Is like you're mad that some of her recipes are good... (Not avocado smoothie or wet almonds of course)...

i feel the same way... But I don't frequent mosques...

I see what you're saying, and I kind of feel bad because those phrases shouldn't be loaded.. We don't see "good husband" or taking care or your wife/GF as bad things... I mean, depending on who says it and what they mean by it, it could be patronizing, but it has the advantage of grey areas

i love that! My Bf is my live-in chef and dishwasher, but I've taught him a few tricks from my homeland's cooking, which he has adapted into his recipes. I'm gonna have to find a clever way to name a dish after him cuz he's a cool feminist. Also, totes stealing that idea. I like to bake, so I'm gonna start naming…

well... Underpaid immigrant labor and refusing to allow legalization so they can keep paying them shit could count as defacto semi-slave labor