Do it. With that kind of idiotic message, he deserves it...

I second jpomonkey’s advice. Although I don’t consider myself an expert, I’ve been in a relationship with a guy I met on OKC for five months. I initially went on dates with three guys - two who messaged me and one I messaged first after he ‘liked’ me. I ended up clicking with the one I messaged first. I had chemistry…

Being really open with a friend would probably help, but the person I trust the most hasn’t been very open with me about her own relationship. She’s pretty private about her feelings and emotions, and I think she’s afraid I’d judge her for some decisions she’s made, but I really respect her opinion. When I talked to…

I’m teaching a summer class and have midterms to grade, but instead, I’ve decided to have an 80s movie marathon on Netflix. I just watched The Burbs, The Money Pit, Batteries Not Included, and Adventures in Babysitting. Any recommendations to include in my marathon?

What if you don’t even have an infatuation phase? Me and my guy had no honeymoon period and it feels weird not to have had that. We are compatible. We don’t fight. The sex is good. However, he is one of the least romantic people I’ve ever met. He clearly avoids romance, cheesiness, and corniness like the plague, and…

Neither suggestions were dick-ish. I love Crispin, especially the pear cider, but it’s a bit hard to find in my current location. I’ve never tried Brooks. Is it crisp and clean like Crispin? I’ve had a few ciders that are so dry that they become a little too beer-like, which is not what I look for in a cider. If it…

I get the same crap, but for me, since I’m pursuing a doctoral degree in a liberal arts field, all I hear is: “You’re never going to meet a man in that field!” Oh darn! There go all my hopes and dreams down the toilet! Obviously that was my only goal in spending nearly a decade of my life studying, writing, and…

Congratulations on meeting someone who makes you feel so great! Do you think that everyone knows when they’ve met the right person? I’ve been with a guy I met online for five months and I feel like all I tend to focus on are the red flags and the potential problems. But I also feel like that’s just the kind of person…

I’m having Smith & Forge Hard Cider, and it’s amazing! Very apple-y, a bit sweet, but still crisp and refreshing.

Uhhh, yes girl.

I have been to many drag shows, my dear. I went to see Naomi Smalls just a few weekends ago (she was great, btw). I just understand the historical origin of the word “drag,” and know that all cross-dressing can technically be called drag. You have a very narrow definition, whereas I have a very broad one.

Actually, the tradition definition of drag is: “drag (n): clothing more conventionally worn by the opposite sex, especially women’s clothes worn by a man.” Therefore, all cross-dressing in which a man dresses as a woman can be called drag. Neither doing drag nor cross-dressing have anything to do with “orientation.”

People don’t have to be gay to do drag. Nope, not using any definition of the word. Using the traditional definition, a man dressing as a woman, he is technically doing drag. And his orientation has nothing to do with it.

Thank you for sharing that resource! She does exhibit some traits of narcissism, but her major problem was an anxiety disorder and depression. She was (and is) a controlling perfectionist, so when things didn’t go exactly her way, she would lash out at those around her. She’s significantly better now that she has been…

Yes, I’m still very much recovering from that awful train wreck of a relationship. I wish I could find someone to date who is actually a healthy communicator, so I could learn from them. When I started dating this last guy, he assured me that he considered himself an open and direct communicator. Nope, not so much...

I also tend to think of any communication that’s not 100% positive as some sort of “confrontation” when it really doesn’t need to be that way. So in the past I’ve bottled things up until I explode, which is obviously not a good way to go about things. But also, the person you’re with will help tremendously with that.…

First, I wanted to thank everyone who gave me advice last Saturday. I posted about some sexual issues I was having with the guy I had been seeing, and everyone was so helpful!

I’m not really a fan of giving myself clitoral stimulation during intercourse. I tried this in a past relationship (not the super unhealthy one or the French man I mentioned in previous posts), and once I started getting myself off, the guy completely stopped pleasuring me. So now, that’s something I’m hesitant to do,…

I agree, and I need to give my current guy to opportunity to show me if he can be that with me.

I’m pretty sure my guy would really be into this. I think we’re actually rather incompatible sexually because we both prefer the other to take charge. I like my partner to be in control when pleasuring me, and I also prefer man-on-top sexual positions. My guy likes the same thing in reverse. He loves it when I take…