Hence my saying that there is obviously a lot to unpack ie: men wanting partners that other men find attractive.

Obviously there's a lot that can be unpacked here, but if you're marrying someone that usually means you're in love and when you're in love it usually means you find that person attractive.

It's pretty rude of him to be out there, existing, while not dating us.

This is very very very good but between this and the Cookie Monster thing I am genuinely worried that Hiddles is going to come in and sex up all my favorite childhood things. It's... confusing.

1. Yay Muppets!

I've been thinking the same thing. It's been riotous around here, so why not do our own Sexiest Man who is also not a total skeeze poll?

A friend of mine knew Tom at school and said he was always as sweet and gentlemanly as he appears.

I can't believe I'm actually excited about SNL. But Josh and Haim. Yeah, I'll watch the hell out of that.

Adam and Rachel dated for a long time so no - not faked at all!

Congrats Blair and Seth!

Either of these exemplary gentlemen would be a vast improvement. As would Jared.

Probably a bit. But for the full effect I think that when you express your bewilderment you also need a bunch of women telling you "you're just jealous."

I realize that video is supposed to be serious business but there's a few seconds where he runs his hand from his neck down to his chest and man alive is it doing things to me. Also that oven mitt. It never even occurred to me that an over mitt could be sexy.

Tom teasing Cookie Monster. That is all.

Right? What are these people still arguing about? How do they not see that 1. marriage equality is inevitable and 2. they are going to be considered among the worst pieces of shit in history?

Well good luck! The most important thing is that at the end of it all you'll be married - remember that and I'm sure you'll be able to tackle anything else the planning stages throws at you. Congrats!!

Haha, yeah. Weddings and relaxed don't tend to go hand in hand. It helped that the bride and groom are generally chill people.

But isn't the idea more that people should just do what they want? I have yet to attend a baby shower but I've been to a bunch of bachelorette parties and bridal showers. Some were women only, some were co-ed. They just reflected what the bride-to-be/couple wanted. And I think that's how it should be with all these…

By that same logic, why not say that if the couple getting married or having a baby want to make the showers co-ed, then they make it co-ed and anybody can opt out if they don't feel like going? It's shouldn't be about forcing men to attend these events, it's about being more open minded about what these types of…

One of my very good friends had a bachelorette weekend that included guys. And recently I threw a friend of mine and her now husband a couples party. We did do a women only shower earlier in the day, but the guys joined us at the shower and then we all went out to a rooftop bar. It was relaxed and fun and nobody cared…