Perfect example. There’s absolutely no reason an experience such as that needs to be shared and cause further humiliation (not that I think your husband would do anything bad with the information). She is lucky to have you as a friend.

Then we agree! My point was that if someone told you something in confidence with the expectation for you not to share that information with anyone else, then it should be expected. There’s a big difference in relaying life/stories of your friends (good or bad) and passing along information that was told to you in…

So if a good friend of yours confides that her partner gave her an STD and she is embarrassed/furious about it you would find it appropriate to share that info with your spouse?

Well, I can openly pluck my chin hair in front of my fiance and he gives no fucks ;).

Eh, I was lower enlisted. So pretty much nothing in her eyes anyway.

When I had extensions, it wasn’t something I tried to hide. If someone gave me a compliment then I would say ‘Thanks! But I bought the hair!’

OMG... dead. lol

And what shitty advice.

Maru is a world treasure!!

I <3 your posts! lol

18 years isn’t a ‘pet’. He’s a part of the family. How heart breaking :(. I wish you peace.

Dude, I know that feeling!

I agree with the lady.

Awesome! Have a blast :D. I like Thailand but if you can, stop into Vietnam for a few days. While there is tourism of course, the country doesn’t seem as *overrun* with tourists as Thailand. Or it didn’t a few years ago anyway!!

Cool!!

Awesome!

Respected and understood. I don’t look at others and think ‘why don’t they have what I have?’

No worries, friend.

Yeah, totally. That’s how this conversation has transpired.

Well, I’m sorry. I can save that in two months.