Ever recalled a childhood friend and googled them and then found them? I just found this one that’s had a pretty interesting life I’ve been reading up on, but I have no intention of contacting her.
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Ross always got a pass from me because it was clear to me from the get-go that he was supposed to be an idiot man-baby but, as the series progressed? Rachel became my leavetheroomformoredietcoke/wine person. She just never grew up. She never changed. I actually thought Monica and Chandler had the most natural and…
The reason it worked is because you were being authentic, and you attracted an authentic guy. The dating “game” is ridiculous, and I wish I’d realized that a long time before I finally did.
Okay so you may not like this advice so just gird your loin: stop for awhile. Stop having sex. This was my life in college. I was always the fun girl, the down for everything girl, the girl they told their secrets to and the girl that was more fun. But over, and over and over and over again I wasn’t THE girl. So you…
I’m sorry. For what it’s worth, I think in good relationships, it is as simple as you think it should be. My best friendships (no romantic experience to speak of) really do just flow like water. You are kind and honest and talk things out, and it just works. That’s not to say there isn’t effort, but it doesn’t feel…
I don’t think that makes me feel better. I’m not a simple person, and I’m okay with that. It’s just become extremely frustrating because it all comes down to what I’m doing wrong.
It has to be taken contextually. I watched it when it was new, own all of it on DVD and have gone through it on Netflix probably ten times now. For today, it is a giant shit show. And some stuff in particular was sketchy even then (fat Monica). But! A lesbian wedding was crazy progressive at the time. And Carol and…
I’m at Lake Tahoe at a resort. Ideal.
Also, I thought this was funny. A few weeks ago I got a little class in with baby yogi watching and someone snapped this photo. He likes to chill out with his stuffed coyote while I practice ;P
Any Arsenal fans out there? I’m absolutely ecstatic about the FA Cup win today!!! My life has kind of sucked lately, a lot (I can’t find a job and have to move from an amazing apartment in the city that I love, where I’ve just started having success in online dating, back in with my conservative parents in the middle…
Tomorrow, I start my new second part time job. I’m okay with it... I’m not particularly excited about it... after all it’s just another minimum wage retail job, but a girl’s gotta do...
I finally managed to make perfect soft boiled eggs three times in a row!
Yay, SNS!
It’s an horrific and disgusting development that is destroying academia.
Except that most psychologists think that trigger warnings do more harm than good. The best way to get over trauma is to confront it and process it, not avoid it altogether. Avoiding the trauma just reinforces the discomfort. I’m willing to bet that most of the people in favor of trigger warnings are delicate little…
Trigger warnings seem to have been hijacked by people who treat them extremely frivolously. They’re supposed to warn survivors of serious trauma that they might encounter content which will make them revisit that trauma. Not “any potentially distressing content whatsoever”. There was a college recently that put…
So, to you, the gays and lesbians who have fought, suffered, and died for the right to visit the person they love on their deathbed have no value because Trans rights, a movement in its infancy, doesn’t have legal and social parity with the broader gay rights movement. You seem to think that you have the right to…
The problem here is not feminism. It’s the rather new university atmosphere of caked-on “fear” rearing its ugly head. Instead of engaging others’ arguments, many people in the current collegiate generation have decided that claiming one has been placed in an “unsafe” environment by the “offending” ideas is a more…
No. Can’t tolerate different viewpoints and it’s not just the consent stuff, they also want trigger warnings and to police professors and what they can and can’t teach, lest these delicate flowers be exposed to any form of thinking that doesn’t mesh 100% with their ideology. They’re like the feminist taliban.