When I hear people say this, it makes me think they think being bi is just about wanting sex with everyone. Why else would they think it is not something worth sharing to those you are close to? Bisexuality is not about sexing up everything you can, it is so much more than that, and until more people are encouraged to…

Seriously, we have all been there. One of my favorite parts about this community is people won't let you get away with shit. It can cause you to get really defensive, but if you are truly want to become a good ally, it is a wonderful way to learn!

Please do not take my comment someone kicking you out. You are obviously very interested about the LGBT+ community, and that is welcomed here. What I am saying is you should listen to our lived experience, instead of fight against them. You don't want to be offensive, great! Start paying attention to what people say…

When cishet people tell members of the LGBT+ community that we place too much attention on orientation and it doesn't matter, they are erasing part of who we are and our lived experience. It would be the same to go up to a POC and tell them you don't see color. Hopefully you can see how offensive that is.

I just love your palette cleansers selections! I know what I will be listening to for the next hour or so!

My school is on the new listing. My school which I love dearly, but ultimately left because how my assault was handled by both the university and my peers. I started having academic issues after the assault, which is not surprising since my rapist was in a majority of my classes.

I will say I have personally never seen anyone behave like that (minus the driving, but I usually only see that from people that live off those streets), but that sure doesn't mean it doesn't happen. That sounds horrible and I would hate us city folks to if that was a weekly problem during the wedding season.

While I agree there should be some level of ownership over what is considered offensive, I think the students not viewing some of these things as offensive speaks to the culture of that marching band. I say this as someone who marched in college, not in TBDBITL, but still a fairly large, school with an intense and…

My husband's family owns a BBQ restaurant and they cater to many different weddings. I really wanted them to do ours (before I even met my husband) but having my father in-law cater my wedding and not actually enjoy it wasn't really a possibility.

I am currently planning my wedding and have always wanted to do pulled pork and ribs for food. Well my husband and his father compete in BBQ contest and own what I considered the best BBQ place in town. I am now "stuck" with traditional wedding food since I don't want my in-laws catering the wedding and they have…

As someone from Missouri in her mid twenties, I have been to my fair share of barn weddings, and a few times have wondered about the safety of the barn. That said, I have yet to attend one where the cops weren't called at least once. These aren't wild college parties, just normal noise from a wedding.

So I was involved in this sort of Christianity in college. Like really involved. My plan, at the time, was to go to law school and then work for the ministry I was involved with. However, they had a very strict policy about the amount of debt you were allowed to have to work for them because every one of their…

Thank you. I cannot believe all this Vitale love. I honestly have to listen to every game he broadcast on mute because I end up wanting to throw things at the TV if I hear his voice.

Okay, I was just so surprised something like that would have passed in Missouri. Thank you so much for that link.

We did? When? I tried looking it up and couldn't find anything. I am curious to know which governor passed this.

Okay, so I honestly don't understand the difference. Does this mean the cost will continue to stay high, or will it go down after research cost is recuperated?

How is the Little Apple doing these days? While I miss that awesome little town, I do not miss I-70.

If I would have been one more drink in, it might have been mine too.

I think that is the part the frustrates me so much about his conversation. Many people who have never been attacked seem to think rapist come with some big flashing sign. Most people know rapist. A few have probably defended one against some "slutty girl." It is easier to label a girl slutty than think that a friend…

You forgot Nice GuysTM. I mean, just ask him, he is the nicest guy he knows.