My grandmother and her sister (Southerners) called their parents mamma and daddy when talking to each other ABOUT them, but I can’t remember what names they called them by when they addressed them directly. I was too young.

Maxton sounds like a brand of tampons, which is fine if that’s what it is. But as a child? Eek.

Or crying.

Wow, just wow. That cake!

Aww, sorry. And hugs to you. Grandmas are the best.

They are beautiful photographs in terms of lighting, composition, etc., but the subject matter is just so creepy and wrong. They remind me of those Calvin Klein ads that got everyone riled up awhile back.

“Hard Candy” is quite something. I second your recommendation. I also once saw Patrick Wilson & family in the airport (he’s from near me)—and I just gave him a nod & a smile b/c it was Christmas & I didn’t want to disturb them with their small children in tow.

This might be the worst thing I’ve ever read. It’s so, so terrible. I am sorry.

Why are we throwing Elsie under the bus? I love Maeve and Elsie both. Why must it be one or the other? They are both badass, competent women.

Your mother always makes me angry on your behalf, Pumpkin Andy.

Some of us (olds) were pre-desktop computers. We did have a computer lab, but it was always crowded. :(

We visited our cabin in the mountains and avoided all political talk. It was splendid.

I really loved INTO THE WILD. I even gave to to someone else as a gift once. I found it inspiring, if sad.

This video is helpful:

I’m sure the Chelsea Market (open-air green market, NYC) I wandered through today had collards ridiculously cheaper than Neiman Marcus. I didn’t look, but I’d put good money on it.

Watching one of the “Harry Potter” films yesterday I was reminded that we lost Alan Rickman this year. Not just Bowie and Prince and everyone else, but the wonderful Alan Rickman. It was January—so long ago. I actually had to look up to see if I remembered he’d really died. Then I got sad all over again.

Happy early welcome to our fair city. Leaves are pretty colors. Weather’s been nice. I hope it stays that way for you. SO jealous you’ll get to see “Hamilton.” Best of luck with your daughter’s treatment/recovery.

It’s on cable right now (HBO maybe?). Ironically, I watched it about 3 days before the new Weiner/Huma/Clinton email scandal(?) broke.

I’m a white, middle-aged female living in the Northeast (but grew up in the South) and I love this show—mostly for the really smart writing.

I taught 8th grade last year (13-15 year olds). I tried very hard to include lessons of love, empowerment, and empathy in our reading, writing, and literature study. I thought this was something that good teachers do to form good human beings / good global citizens. Unfortunately, schools are so focused on…