Can we also talk about the people who insist on backing in to parking places? Not just their driveway, but in busy fucking parking lots. It messes up the flow of everyone trying to park, and what is the point? I consider it a deal breaker on anyone I date. It’s trivial, stupid and small of me to judge one on that…

Good enough for Stephanie March - the woman who (allegedly) had a plane with a banner saying “CHEATER” fly over his ceremony revealing his star on Hollywood Blvd.

Aaaaaand now of course my comment showed up black, which means I’ve probably messed up my LDR with Jez by complaining.

Aaaaaaand, of course! Now that I complained, my comment showed up black. I hope she doesn’t dump me for bringing up this touchy topic.

How did you finally do it - Jezebel is the only site on which I’m still grey? Do you think Jezebel is seeing someone else? I saw some comments in black, but they told me it was just a “glitch.” Should I mention it to them? I don’t want to make them mad...and we’re in a LDR so it makes our time together that much more…

I think and pray that the “get over it” philosophy is finally getting the ass-beating it has needed for a long time.

I’m on the wrong site again....read the header and was hoping for some tips on perimenopausal night sweats...keeping the A/C at 65 is killing my electric bills and the environment. If this man walked into my bedroom and lied on top of me - I would explode into flames. In a bad way.

Agreed! It’s just a neg wrapped up in what some jerk thinks is “psychological jargon.”

Dayna - this essay is pure genius, and made me think about my own situation (again!) These men who desert our mothers, have to have a defense mechanism in place so that they can go thru life without thinking they are total monsters. (Or if they’re narcissistic alcoholics like mine and yours, they don’t give a shit.)…

The stroke defence is genius!

The hottest thing about him that I’ve read is that is he completely whipped on his commoner girlfriend. He positively glows when she’s around.

Two modest brides. Pnina Tornai’s gowns inevitably look like what a bride should wear UNDER her dress. I’m no prude, but on SYTTD it’s almost always an ex-beauty queen or over-sexy bride who craves that look. I’m always shocked that their fathers are willing to walk them down the aisle in lingerie.

You are lovely! You would be a beautiful bride in a muslin sheath. Cheers!

Okay...I have a goat. He lives at a farm about 1/2 mile away from me but I care for him. I can’t show his pic for fear it will blow my “cover.” That said, he is the funniest, gentlist, smartest man I know. He is basically a 90 year old man by now, but I’m telling you...if you are sad, lonely, depressed, pissed off or…

Is it okay if I didn’t like either?

I’m a woman. I can be a ballbuster I suppose...but for the most part girlie girl. Goodfellas is one of my favorite movies. I have it on DVD. It is on my DVR - NEVER to be deleted.

I wonder if like our orange congressman, this guy has tried to get people to call him BAY-NING. Just like BAY-NOR. I took German, and Boeh - is BO all the way.

I’ve always said that legislators who think that gay marriage puts their straight marriage in danger are free to criminalize gay marriage with a few caveats. Anyone of them who has been divorced goes to jail. Divorce becomes illegal. Infidelity becomes a felony. If we’re going to do this then do it, you animals!

I was weaned on TAB. Then spent may years with Diet Coke. Now I’m addicted to Coke Zero which I discovered in South America where I couldn’t find a GD Diet Coke!! My addiction is a large line item in Europe/Scandanavia. Diet Cokes in Norway were (no joke) about $6. England is about $5. I almost stay in nice B&B’s and…

Mother’s Milk.