You’re so smart.

Sounds like it reveals an internal battle that ended up having a line drawn in the sand that the OP didn’t know was there. You’re trying to fault someone who did something healthy for themselves after struggling with the decision, which is why I am taking issue with this. Who cares about the impetus for a decision…

You know, people’s opinions are a very direct way of getting to know someone. For instance, some people harbor the opinion that white males are the only people that matter and this translates into them throwing hissy-fits about the expansion of women’s roles in movies and films.