can we admit though that men having a rape fetish and indulging on that kink (even in consensual relationships) is more complicated to condone? men making videos for men that show men (simulating) raping women doesn’t communicate to other men raping women is not okay. role play all day in your consensual relationship;…

Minneapolis is about 60 percent white. We have the largest Somali population outside of Mogadishu, alongside many other immigrants and refugee populations (Hmong, central/south America) supported by our pretty decent social support services (public and private). There is a visible, cohesive American Indian population…

the patriarchy did benefit from women making the choice or society influencing them to make the choice (or in some cases, society and family required them to wear them without a choice) because not being able to move freely, not being able to breath - daily - limits your capacity. breathing helps our brains and…

dude. if you know nothing about it, read something besides the article and the comments section. there are dozens, maybe even hundreds of article about this.

your hands can reach that far down for good reason. why wait for the elusive VO when the hands outside/ something else inside combination is sexy and effective?

glove lobbyists are the worst

David Bowie isn't dead. no grave turning today.

what if Cosby were singing it? think of any creeper/harasser you know singing this song and tell me you are okay with it. I am not okay with it. it is rape culture of a different decade. still rape culture.

if genders were reversed, this ad wouldn’t have even been considered. that says a lot.

co-operative child care at a licensed center is the only way to go. if all parents can support a half day, the cost drops and quality of care increases significantly.

ummm, no. Bloomingdales does not have a little old lady on their expensive ad campaigns.

we fell right into their trap. this was intentional. bad press is still press for Bloomingdales and Robin Thicke. it is like ten times the press for a tenth of the ad cost.

I guess my family had some previous experience that shaped this - but I always was told never to get on a tree swing without knowing its story, especially if you are an adult. they aren’t usually made for adults. No one in my family would have touched that ish.

in the garage was definitely along the same lines

I am talking to a lot of people and saying it out of a reasonable place. Many woman are aware of this, many woman of color is aware of this. It is a problem for all of us. It wasn’t highlighted specifically so I put words to it. Just because someone replies to a comment posted by you doesn’t mean it just about you or…

you are totally right. that was a turn in character, it is unfortunate that the story is lost in the use of the term.

Yes and being a POC doesn’t prevent you from being sexist, objectifying women and oversexualizing blond women in particular.

ew. this personal was totally trolling and is now chummy, after immediately attacking your sincere post. glad you are a forgiving person but ffs don't start a personal exchange with this bully.

my friend had her husband replace a 300 dollar dress he damaged after washing incorrectly when the label gave clear instructions. he never made a laundry mistake again. really people, unless your partner can't read...there are no excuses.

After listening to a “boomer” feminist lament how dirty her son and daughter in law’s house was, I asked her who she expected to clean it. She said both, but honestly her son (even though he worked for home wasn’t doing it) so someone else needed to. I then explained that if a messy house signified a woman refusing to…