He definitely should have been more understanding but we're talking about something that is going to go up his butt. He's understandably careful about that sort of thing.

No but at the end, Ilana's dad said he was going to go to the mall to get one so Iana's mom could peg him.

It is the most vibrant place in the city.

He does seem like someone who'd be open to trying it at least once.

True enough but it can be hard to get out of your own head and the internal logic you use. Jeremy may be lying to himself about who he really is but he can't see that because he's only got his own perspective to go from.

It's the natural spectrum of things. There will always be people who don't like something.

Not sexually or anything, but she talks to her about stuff like the hair in the shower thing (which came up this week and was a nice callback) and gets into her personal space more than anyone else at work besides Todd. She definitely doesn't see the disdain but I think she like to keep Abbi up to date on what's going…

True but he made himself pretty vunerable as well (figuratively and literally), so I can understand getting all defensive about it.

You know you're at your grandmother's shiva, right?

Well, Jeremy has feelings too. I know I wouldn't like it if someone made assumptions about me just because I like certain things and doing things a certain way.

Really penetrated the issue, didn't they?

I dunno- she seems like someone who'd talk about people who annoy/interest her at work, and Nicole is definitely of interest to her.

And then when the head gets stuck in the door when she's leaving … there are no words.

That was pretty funny, although I'm surprised Abbi didn't recognize her. I would have thought Ilana would have talked about to her about Nicole and shown her a picture by now.

Though what store at the mall would you go to for a dildo? Spencer Gifts?

The dildo was custom-built to his rectal specifications so yeah, he'd have valid concerns about just some random dildo going in after that.

Totally agree. So much greatness in the episode, I don't even know where to start. Something tells me that even the arrest and release have happened to Ilana and her mom many times before. I love how Abbi and Jeremy both had valid points in the discussion, though I have to side more with Jeremy there. My only…

No, Ilana said she was the one who got it for Abbi. It's like one of those uglydolls.

"Godammit, my manuka honey!" was the one that got me the most.

I feel like it's a bit of both, like it's secure and somewhat familiar yet still appealing. Ilana has commitment issues but it seems like she wants some stability, even if she won't admit it.