Good to see you went back to the basics.

If someone was way into red wine and had a little wine rack or even a cellar, went for wine tours and read wine magazines, would you consider that a part of their identity? I would, and I don't really think pot is that different.

Somehow it makes all the difference in the world whether the discussion is framed in the "I'm not sure I agree with Dan"-mode or the "Hey listen, NICKNAME, here's my advice"-mode.

You're right. Unless the military wife knows her partner never reads Savage Love and is never going to, that seems like a roundabout confession.

Shouldn't the last line rhyme with "love" and "dove"?

Yeah, I'm pretty sure those people don't come here and check the comments.

WHERE ARE MY DRAGONS?

I think it's more like Hank + coffee = creative insanity.

When Dean went to the door, I was so sure they were setting up something to happen between him and that congresswoman's aid chick who was just standing there.

Seriously? Such a waste.

Holy crapping, rapping grandma that is awesome! Completely missed the first time around too.

Really?

Yeah, I expected him to be six feet tall and built like a Greek god.

Eh, disposable.

It's good and all but it's just an acapella track. There's gotta be a million of these things, why is this so significant?

"Nice" doesn't mean boring, non-confrontational, passive or weak. Nice means not being a dick and few people want to date dicks. You can be nice and confident, attractive, outgoing, whatever.

And if all else fails, there's always good old necrophilia.

So she's 3000 miles away and in a friends-with-benefits relationship? Off the cuff I'd say that's two pretty big hurdles. What's the deal with you two? Are you pen pals? Old friends? Or did you just meet her on the street/through friends/online?

It depends. Some people are in these kinda situations for many months or even years and then it kinda drifts to that grey area of not quite dating but not really being single either. But in general the whole idea of friends with benefits is that it's completely non-exclusive in which case it shouldn't be weird to ask…

Not Savage Dik, just interested.