The problem was not the frequency the bathroom was cleaned but up to what standard it should be cleaned that caused the tension. I could never, ever clean the bathroom to her standard. Not once a month, not twice a month, NEVER. Me trying to only pissed me off because in my mind, I cleaned the effing bathroom and…

I have lived with several roommates. Women make the best roommates (I am male, feel free to dismiss my opinion due to dangling genitalia). Two of which had a standard of cleanliness that I did not adhere to. It is a lifestyle choice, not laziness.

Agreed. It's called college.

If two people both choose to engage in activities that impair judgement (drugs, alcohol, whatever), both become inebriated, at what point can neither consent? And who is responsible if both parties are impaired beyond consent?