Thank you for posting this link. This is not a topic in which I'm very knowledgable and I appreciated how much information it provided. Really interesting. I can see validity in several viewpoints. Thanks again.

"I'm actually concerned about the likelihood I'll end up in the wedding party! Poofy? Frilly? Gaaaah."

The books are not great works of literature, fine. But why such vitriol with this level of hate? Sometimes I feel like the commenters here are snobs who can't handle anything that doesn't scream "high brow." If these books encouraged women to think more about their sexuality and what they enjoy, I think they're a huge…

I hate people. What's next? "I got drunk and broke my iPhone! Please help me pay for a new iPhone! It was my birthday!!!!" Who gives a fuck? If you're juggling three jobs and can't afford $450 rent, why the hell are you calling a car service anyway? Sorry for living in reality but I don't do shit I can't afford. I've…

Several friends of ours have had destination weddings because they really made sense. Yes, really. For instance, one couple is in NYC but his family is in CA and her family is in IL, and they went to school in OH so have lots of friends there, so anywhere they wanted to get married, a lot of people were going to have…

The comments on any article related to Greek life always make me feel bad, because I think fraternities and sororities are diverse communities (house-to-house and campus-to-campus) and can't all be lumped together.

http://conflictkitchen.org/wp-content/upl… - these are extreme, obviously one-sided accounts which make all Palestinians angels and all Israelis murderers. There is a grey area in which millions live their realities. Conflict Kitchen is not helping the conflict by demonizing one of the involved parties. I think it's…

Also if this wasn't a bad idea why did all of these comic geniuses de-activate their Instagram accounts? Shouldn't they have them on and be proud of their brilliance? I hope Daniel W. Parks' kid gets taken away. That's not a reasonable parent. That's a piece of shit who shouldn't be allowed near a child.

Ew you're a bad troll. Just looked at your comments history and I feel ill.

Look at all these well-regulated militia members! Oh wait...

I am no fashionista, to be sure, but I was home with my son from birth through about 21 months. Admittedly I did not look gorgeous whenever grocery shopping, but I managed to shower, wear clean clothes, put on mascara, and wear earrings every day. I think it's about managing expectations. I had a closet full of…

I have to respectfully disagree with you.

In New York an engagement ring is "a gift in contemplation of marriage" and thus if there's no marriage you have to give back the ring. My hubby's BFF was engaged three times (married the third fiance) and I remember the day he sold both the rings. Took a hefty loss. Bizarre dinner conversation that night.

There are over 10M stay-at-home moms (SAHMs) in the United States. Why every blogger and commenter seems to imagine just one shitty woman they know is beyond me.

After we took out all 500 bobby pins in my hair and peeled me out of my gown, we got high on the balcony and ate leftover hors devours. Nothing better than wearing Spanx with undone ringlets and eating a duck pastrami Reuben at 4am!

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Did you see? This was hours ago and I'm still upset I saw it. Should I say what it was? I feel weird doing that.

OH MY GOD why are there are horrible pictures in the "pending" comments? I get that people like trolling but why are there horrible photos of torture? How is that enjoyable for anyone?! I don't get it!

I used to bring "Brief Interviews With Hideous Men" (David Foster Wallace, z"l) on the Delta Shuttle with me. In hardcover! Literally not once did a man try to sit next to me. Forgot it one weekend, and had a d-bag in the middle as I tried to melt into the window.

100% agreed. I literally have friends with engagement rings in the $500 to $60K (yes, really) range. Ironically the one with the biggest, blingiest ring told me that my setting was the most beautiful she'd ever seen (laughed at her hubby's face after that one)! I love my big blingy engagement ring and I don't think it…