Seriously? He was giving the eulogy *at the funeral of a minister*. It’s fair to assume most of the audience were Christians. So saying “God moves in mysterious ways” is pretty on point in that situation.

Not the time or the place buddy. That was pretty damned tone deaf of you.

In the older picture, she looks a lot like my mother around the same age. And my mother has two black parents and four black grandparents. I’d be *real* surprised if she is white and not mixed race.

Ugh, this is so damn gross and it seems (to me) like a recent change. I’m 41. 20 years ago when men hit on me and I told them I had a boyfriend, they usually backed off. Now? I tell them I have a fiance and they say things like “Well, he ain’t here now is he?” or “What’s that got to do with me?” or the best: “That’s…

Why can’t you spell or punctuate properly?

No, I think not. I have a right to my opinions just as each of us do. You are free to disagree.

So, so true! I was born in 1974, so grew up in the late 70’s/80’s. We’re black, the neighborhood we lived in was black, and I don’t ever remember parents having to take the precautions parents do now. My own brother owned a (realistic looking) fake rifle and ran around playing with it. Other kids did too; I don’t ever…

Most of these types of killings are committed by white men. Comumbine? White teenagers. The Colorado movie theatre shooting? White guy. Sandy Hook shooting? Another white guy.

I’d say even before the 2000’s. When I was in high school (1987-1991) the kids from the local projects were really into Gucci and Louis Vuitton—since this was Northern NJ, I think much of what I saw may have been knock offs they got on Canal St. And not just the girls either—there was more than one guy with a baseball…

“It looks a little trashy,” Ryan said. “It’s better to be subtle.”

“Please, obviously you were in a paid arrangement with this old man, obviously he made the rules and you happily complied, but you also got A LOT from it.”

Ah, that makes *all* the difference.

So, reusable ice cubes?

“I’m not trying to justify in any way his actions,”

East Rutherford? I’ve been out of Jersey 10 years now—is MetLife Stadium the place that was Brendan Byrne Arena, then Continental Airlines arena (but everyone just kept calling Brendan Byrne Arena)?

I don’t watch 19 kids and counting, but you know what I would watch? A show where one or more of the kids casts off their upbringing and goes out into the real world.

Or might have a bladder infection or UTI. Unfortunately, I had to fly once while sick this way. I knew I’d have to get up for the bathroom often, so I asked the guy on the aisle seat if he would trade (I was in the window seat). He refused. Then got huffy when he had to keep getting up so I could go to the bathroom.…

How is that bear’s head so big and his eyes so tiny?

“It really doesn’t do anything for me because when I go to the Met Gala, the richest, most prominent people recognize me,” says Mahdessian, who keeps a pack of Marlboro Lights within reach.”

I’m disagreeing with you. I’m getting married next May, I’m black...and I want now I want a donkey with flowers on it’s head at my wedding. Not a white thing at all. I think this is a marvelous idea.