No one has *told* you they were upset by you putting your bank information in the invitation. Most people probably wouldn't. That doesn't mean they thought it was okay. If someone sent me a wedding invitation like that, of course I wouldn't say it looked tacky. I'd be thinking it though.

"We put slips with bank info into the envelope that contained the invitation."

You should always get two cats, especially if you're going for a kitten. One kitten left alone all day will destroy your furniture. Two kittens will fight/play with each other at least part of the time and your furniture will not be completely destroyed.

Gato Negro (merlot) was the house wine at my last long term apartment. My roommates and I always had a bottle or two around. Excellent choice.

That's what so great about it—you know these two people have monster egos to do something like that. I mean...Bollywood dancing/helicopter/ Mercedes Benz/ pretending to be a rap star in your save the date video is just so over the top. This is not a marriage that will last and the divorce will no doubt be drama…

No, I don't either but that video is hysterical. Well, I thought it was—the over the top ridiculousness of it set it ahead of the hipster try hards for me. That was too cutesy for my taste.

Sorry, they can't top the one the two lawyers did (who are also in San Francisco).

"It's not tacky to sign up for one, or even list it at the bottom of your invitation."

I wish I could give this 20 stars. You are not, absolutely not, supposed to assume you're getting a gift. Yes, people often give them, but it's the assumption that makes me wince. And then telling people *what* to get you as a gift—who raised these people? The older I get the more grateful I am to have been raised…

This is what my brother did (although it was an accident) and it worked out fine. A few weeks before the wedding, someone at work asked where he was registered; he realized they had forgotten to do that. Whatever—people gave them gifts despite the absence of a registry. I think I'll do the same at my wedding…

Just awful. Here's why Honeyfund is gross, as is telling people in the invitation/save the date that you only want money. What you're getting is a gift. It's really very rude to tell someone *what* to give you as a gift.

Oh God. I'd blocked out Lady Hennessy Brown until now. :-(

Keep in mind that in the second picture, she's dressed up to go out—nice dress, makeup and hair done for a special occasion. The first picture is just hanging around in jeans. MOST people look better when they're dressed up for a special occasion.

It probably says something terrible about my childhood, but around my neighborhood, we sang this as children. It was a little different then:

Me too! That's how they lure you in.

Me too! That's how they lure you in.

This is the point people tend to lose sight of: CONSEQUENCES. The first amendment guarantees your right to free speech. It does not protect you from the consequences of that speech, as these fine, upstanding young men are finding out now.

You should wait until he's older to slap him . Seriously. When I was maybe twelve, I was having some disagreement with my mother (about what I don't remember). At one point I told her to "go to hell." What I do remember, nearly 30 years later, was the hellacious slap she gave me. I'm pretty sure I never talked that…

Some people are deeply, deeply ignorant. The idea of fraternal twins doesn't seem to have entered into their thinking. I say this as someone who had a twin brother (I'm a woman) and had more than one person ask if we were identical. Seriously.

Around last Christmas I was in Tahoe City, CA. My boyfriend and I saw some tourists? using one on Fanny Bridge. First and only time I've ever seen one.

Yeah, every now and then he says something so out there I wonder if he's had a stroke. Like what he recently said about Beyonce looking up to Kim and having a picture of her in the recording booth. What??!!