You know? When was that? I must have missed it.

Black people growing up in white neighborhoods can also have black friends.

How could he do that? Wouldn't he have to be married to the mother of the child for it to be legitimate?

You mean if she hadn't had an affair with a married man? And was also married herself at the time?

Also being black, having acne (at 40!) and the resulting scarring, I would suggest you see a dermatologist if you can. Specifically, one who is familiar with treating black patients. If you are in or near a city with a significant black population, you should be able to find one. If you're in NYC, you might go to Dr.…

"But I can't - because you're always walking around with your damn earbuds in ("Don't talk to me!") and your sunglasses on, even when they're not necessary (which incidentally doesn't make you look cool or sexy, only unapproachable). "

Oh my goodness, this! I'm 40 now and I noticed this change in my own life. When I was much younger (teens and early 20's) telling a guy that I had a boyfriend often worked for me. Not anymore. Now they say something like "Well, he ain't here now is he?" or "What's that got to do with me?" The last time it was "That's…

That's true, but I think we can agree that for a black child, living in a place where she is not the only POC is a far better deal.

This went into effect 2 years ago in San Francisco. It's a nice idea until the rainy season rolls around. Then you have to schlep groceries in paper bags in pouring rain. That is, if you do the unforgiveable and forget to bring enough resusable ones.

As a shelter volunteer (although not someone who gets to do the naming) a lot of kittens and cats come through. Kitten season is just winding down, so the vet techs (who do the naming) have to come up with a lot of names. Usually they go with themes for litters. We had a mother come in with her six kittens, so the…

No, I was raised by my (black) parents, thanks. I think the person with issues here is you. You're giving this way more attention than it deserves.

1) I don't follow Robert Pattinson's love life. A while back I read (on dlisted I'm going to guess) that he was dating someone named FMK Twigs. I didn't care enough to look up who that person was.

The hell? I'm black and *I* thought she was white until I read this article. Does that make me racist and ignorant? Well, ignorant about Robert Pattinsons' private life maybe. But I don't think that's a bad thing.

I've been living in San Francisco for nearly 9 years and your comment is the first time I've heard Antioch referred to as "the yock." Who have you heard calling it that? Young people (under 25)? All ages? Any distinction as to race? I'm really curious.

Hmm. Does "Women (or men, probably) don't want to date someone old enough to be their parents" count as a good damn reason? Because that's usually true.

"What does "age" mean? Activity level and diet affects you much more than age. I'm in a lot better shape than most 25 year olds."

Kim K made one tape that she avoids talking about, preferring to instead say a lot of other vapid stuff. (As far as I can tell). This girl has made I don't know how many videos and keeps yammering about how it's empowering, etc. It's a 1 time occurrence vs. ongoing actions.

You might try one of those wet Swiffers. Downthread, someone suggested the Mr. Clean Magic Eraser, which is also a good idea—those things are amazing.

"No need for me to inspire them, I guess."

I can't imagine why she's single—I mean, she has a *graduate degree* (eyeroll).