As a woman who likes to masturbate best on her stomach with a hand and a pillow, how do I incorporate a partner in that? They always want to watch me “finger myself”—which I could even get if it was just my finger on my own clit (too intense!), but what they want it to watch me get off from putting my finger up my…

My parents raised me middle class but they grew up blue collar with parents who survived the Great Depression. So there was a lot of sniff testing and cutting off modly bits from otherwise ok food. I have a lot of friends, however, that get skeeved out by this. My friend and I lived together and initially started off…

This study sets off my rage alarms. Jus do you, people! THAT SAID, I’m almost 33 and after a 5 year LTR dating hiatus, I started dating again only to start wondering if I was suited to the traditional marriage model. Not just wondering, but actual introspection and soul searching, so maybe the study has a point? I…

A guy I had been friends with for 8 years and then dating for 3 years was doing a show in NYC (we do not live there). He looked up an old ex (who was married) and reconnected with her so that he’d have a free place to stay. I used to joke with him about the affair he was having being down there for a full month. He…

That’s a new one! :) He usually gets Jerry Garcia or Kenny Rodgers.

My dad was kinda hipster!

Slightly OT here, but what are people’s thoughts on braids in Goth culture?

My parents work this way as well. My mom leaves a trail of clutter wherever she goes and I’ve never seem her lift a toilet brush—my dad does all the cleaning. He’s the main laundry doer because he likes it done a certain way. My mother on the other hand can’t stand the food my father cooks, so she makes all the meals.…

I was a pretty sheltered kid and didn’t have access to porn until college, so I didn’t know what a money shot was, but this was always something I asked my lovers to do! I stumbled upon it through natural experimentation and since we both enjoyed it (I got hot seeing how hot he thought it was) I’ve always left it on…

G-Dragon: Dat smirk tho :)

So...they’re cloth pads in underwear?

As a single, this practice irritates me. Whether or not it’s for nefarious purposes, I and other singles are looking for potential dates/hook ups and it’s hard enough as it is without throwing people who are completely unavailable into the mix. Hey, you seem cool and I seem cool, let’s chat for a few days, oh you’re…

It’s pretty common. I know I stopped reporting to teachers because whenever I did I was told that I was a) exaggerating; b) misinterpreting; c) doing something to invite it; or d) should be flattered.

I don’t understand. Is the humor that she knows nothing? (PUN INTENDED)

5’-ish here! My preferred method is to climb on the aisle seat and hoist the bag from behind me and catapult into the overhead (counting on the forward momentum). Sometimes a young dude or a dad-type will help. I’ve NEVER had a woman offer to help me.

It took me a while, but I realized how unhappy he made me and that I was the worst version of myself when I was with him. He made me feel like I couldn’t trust my instincts or my perceptions of a situation, and that bled into other ares of my life. What he did still makes me angry, but only in a “how could one human…

Yes, this. I was in a 3-yr relationship that ended suddenly. When I pressed for a reason he told me that there were just THINGS that one could accept in a friend but not a lover, none of which he could elaborate on. Throughout the relationship there were times when I thought something was off, but when I pressed he…

I’m pretty sure that originally there wasn’t supposed to be “Hey, dance club—bust out your moves,” but after they saw a finished cut of the movie the producers (or focus groups?) thought the spontaneous dance was weird and out of place, so they had Usher come in and read some lines (that they dubbed in later) about…

I had 6 years of management experience and had been at this company 2 years, but they promoted the dude who’d been at the company a year and was right out of college. They told me it was because he had more experience. It took me two more years and a lot of being The Bitch to be moved upwards. He was promoted again in…

Every time she shows up somewhere, my cohorts and I are always like, "Amanda Palmer and her fucking eyebrows are here."