Good luck and take care

I kind of feel like you have a bit of the air of a mean girl. Just because the woman is being made fun of in a tongue-in-cheek, “ironical” kind of way, does not mean that there isn’t something unkind about what’s being done. It’s true that nobody is drawing grotesque caricatures of her or doxing her mom or something,…

Thanks for sharing a friend of mine went through something similar when she found out from her father that he had wanted her aborted, and had pressured the mother to do so, and that the mother had refused. She was pretty traumatized afterward

That is what the woman did - she brought childcare to the conference (and this is something I have done multiple times in the past). There are two larger issues with the unspoken critique this particular woman faced, and the spoken critique some Jezebel interlocutors are launching. A) It’s asserted that the presence…

Yup...I guess until all our “advocacy” works, I’ll just stay home and away from the world of professions. Thanks for the pro-tip! I’ll send you the bill for my groceries and utilities ;-)

“low self-esteem mixed with thought distortions”. You put it perfectly! I have lived that many times over, wondering why narcissists continued to find me and why I continued to love them. It was exactly this.

Sure, I don’t think that you did it to prove you were hotter. But I don’t think you thought much of what was good for others before you satisfied yourself (even if the marriages were imperfect/troubled). That’s my only point. And I think we do have a responsibility to think of others even when it means we deny…

So how do any of your stated qualities (intellectual, witty, sociable) relate to the fact that you are demonstratively the kind of person who would be an accomplice in (note I said accomplice in, not cause of, not instigator of) the destruction of vows between two other people? You can act as if your action was…