Yea, there was a toxic drama queen I had to uninvite to my wedding. She shrugged about it when I explained she couldn’t come. I knew immediately, from her reaction, that she planned to crash because she knew I wouldn’t throw her out and make a scene. She didn’t seem to care about being uninvited until she found out…

Agreed. Toxic people want interaction because they don’t know the difference between good relating and bad relating. To them, it’s relating. They’re the kinda people you gotta ghost with and then don’t even try to look back. No sentimentality, no checking in. Disappear and scorch the earth behind you.

Too often people mistake “person I’ve known the longest/am related to” as someone who must stay in their life, no matter what. This gal isn’t your “best friend” and hasn’t been in a long time. Breaking up friendships/relationships, etc. is usually painful because it was an important part of/time in your life; but I…

KITCHENETTE 4 LYFE.

My fear for Anxiety Monster is that her “friend” will not let her get off with such a simple email. If she’s truly a drama queen, she’ll rage at her on social media and be ruthless when talking about her to their mutual friends.

Anxiety Monster: this woman is not your friend. She is your abuser. It is OK and normal for you to feel love for her, because that is what abusers do; they exploit the good impulses of their victims (that’s you). Otherwise, they wouldn’t have anyone to abuse. You wouldn’t stick around for it.

Obligatory seconding

My fear for you is that she would take over your wedding. Not necessarily with her presence, but your fears of what will happen and how to get around her difficult personality.

This. Pretty sure swastikas came and went about 70 years ago, that’s not hip.

Here’s a wild idea: if you have to routinely scour a show you’re airing for hidden swastikas, maybe don’t air it at all.

Really fucking tired of people pretending like the same racist, sexist, homophobic shit that’s gone on forever is somehow ‘anti-establishment’ or ‘edgy.’ That is just the status quo.

It is very upsetting that the same place that gives us Rick and Morty also has to give us this nonsense.

Space Ghost Coast to Coast reruns.

The problems of which you speak have been problems in the cities. I don’t know who you’re talking to but there are plenty of people in the cities who are suffering. The difference seems to be that for some reason the discussion about suffering in rural areas are talked about as though the people there are not at fault…

Bullshit.

I heard one person say, “there’s just so much more racial division with Obama than ever before.” Which from that line of reasoning, not only did Obama cause racial division, but, now that Trump is in charge, all those unhappy black and brown people are going to “go back” to enjoying life and getting along with…

Why are they still your friends?

I’ve asked most of my Trump supporting friends - what ISN’T great about America, and they can only say Obama and have no other reasoning behind it.

Wait, we’re getting paid now?

But I’m esp’ly curious about pay+violence