But he’s 16 it’s a matter of months, neither is ok

No, I don’t find this offensive - it’s a song - it’s not saying Oakland girls are ugly, anyone who knows the So cal - Nor cal rivalry of old can tell you that Nor cal girls were always the granola natural, hippy tree huggers while so cal girls were the shallow, makeup wearing mall girls. That’s the context I saw it in…

My mother constantly refers to my younger brother as “your little brother” which kisses me off to no end. He’s 6'2 , 200 lbs and 41 years old. I keep correcting her but it never stops. He lives at home with her, not in his home her home. She praises him for cleaning the house, the house he lives in.

John Hurt. Only correcting because he’s such a fantastic actor. The Elephant Man, 1984

I was gentrified out of Oakland 6 months ago - Neighbor died leaving me with his dog family, then the building I lived in sold and I was challenged on having the dogs which was just a tactic to get me out of my large, cheap downtown apartment. I got paid off to leave and moved to Sacramento. I cry a lot more than I…

The show was funny if you get the humor...it’s weird funny and I loved it