Don’t be hard on yourself for knowing. Seriously. I had someone ask me why I knew any of the horseshite being spewed by these idiots (I had been asked a question and without thinking rattled off an answer without even looking up as I worked on something) with everything going on in the world right now. I know BECAUSE… Read more
Joan, I love you!
I agree with everything you’re saying but one thing that’s kind of bothering me is everyone saying “Tati is 40!!!”, well she’s actually 38 but even so...who cares?... age aside, they’re ALL ADULTS!!!, why the focus on this woman’s age in particular? No one is focusing on JS’s age, and he’s only a few years younger… Read more
I read that whole thing with an uneasy feeling in the pit of my stomach. Kind of like how you read an abuse victims accounts of sexual abuse as a child and it just makes you feel disgusting.
I’m really sorry you’re going through all of this. I know you weren’t looking for advice, so please forgive me for offering this— but as much as possible, I think it would be good to practice some really good self care right now. Baby steps, small things, one thing, if that’s all you can manage, but just keep going in… Read more
When I wish that I had a partner to help with some of the heavy lifting, I remember that very often the load is not actually shared, and the partner may end up adding to the load, rather than sharing it.
What could solve this is weekly testing for everyone. You test negative, you can work at/go to the salon, bar, restaurant, party, etc. I hear scientists in Israel have come up with a COVID test that is a breathalyzer and gives results in minutes. That could be a game-changer. Of course, our govt apparently wants… Read more
I hope Christina Ricci and her son are safe.