anythingsweetie
anythingsweetie
Jul 10
70

it was “a joy to help heal somebody,” although I wouldn’t necessarily describe bringing a much younger person into your relationship to mentor them, then pursuing a relationship with them after separating from your husband, as “healing.” Read more

Jul 9
10

As someone who is currently menstruating and just worked a 9 hour restaurant shift with no break, back cramps, and a monster headache I would just like to say that if he were menstruating that he’s a big fucking baby.

Jul 7
3

Don’t be hard on yourself for knowing. Seriously. I had someone ask me why I knew any of the horseshite being spewed by these idiots (I had been asked a question and without thinking rattled off an answer without even looking up as I worked on something) with everything going on in the world right now. I know BECAUSE Read more

Jul 7
26

I feel worse about Spears than I do about Lohan at this point (the latter has done some truly awful things and I can only defend her for so long), but yeah. We’re fascinated by their downfalls, not willing to interrogate our own roles in them. 

Jul 6
50

I agree with everything you’re saying but one thing that’s kind of bothering me is everyone saying “Tati is 40!!!”, well she’s actually 38 but even so...who cares?... age aside, they’re ALL ADULTS!!!, why the focus on this woman’s age in particular? No one is focusing on JS’s age, and he’s only a few years younger Read more

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Jul 6
3

I read that whole thing with an uneasy feeling in the pit of my stomach.  Kind of like how you read an abuse victims accounts of sexual abuse as a child and it just makes you feel disgusting. 

Jul 4
15

I’m really sorry you’re going through all of this. I know you weren’t looking for advice, so please forgive me for offering this— but as much as possible, I think it would be good to practice some really good self care right now. Baby steps, small things, one thing, if that’s all you can manage, but just keep going in Read more

Jul 4
21

When I wish that I had a partner to help with some of the heavy lifting, I remember that very often the load is not actually shared, and the partner may end up adding to the load, rather than sharing it.

Jul 4
12

The laughable amount of $600 weekly is double my paycheck as an essential worker in a health care institution. 

Jul 4
10

What could solve this is weekly testing for everyone. You test negative, you can work at/go to the salon, bar, restaurant, party, etc. I hear scientists in Israel have come up with a COVID test that is a breathalyzer and gives results in minutes.  That could be a game-changer.  Of course, our govt apparently wants Read more

Jul 4
37

I treated myself this week; this is a carrot for when I’ve progressed a bit more; a pad of really good watercolour paper. Arches 140 lb cold pressed paper 9 x 11 inches, 20 sheets, and it was 60 bucks!

Jul 4
23

Who are the “tech workers” that said it would just be a month long lock down? I know who the officials are, but am not familiar with the “tech workers” you speak of.

Jul 4
11

Thank you for reporting the Sharon Needles stuff.  No one else is.

Jul 2
11

That’s a pretty victimy spin on hiring someone who was already nationally known to do the thing that they’re already nationally known for.